Its a tough subject Greg--I am a big supporter of your live and let live philosophy--and sympathize with gays on many abuses they have had to live with in the past.
I don't care for gov dictacting rules on fed level whether they be Dem or Rebs. I believe the people in their respective states should dictate their laws via democratic process --called the vote--without gov trying to trump them.
Have never saw the nation as divided as it is now and believe enhancement of states rights would solve problem. Neither side will change their views therefore- back to the live and let live--or to each their own.
We have basically foks on the same side of issues of gay marriage-public employee unions--illegals--entitlements-big gov-taxes etc.
We need to let each state dictate their stance and then let the people choose and live with the consequences of their convictions of their budget on their tax revenue.
We could all live in the friendly confines of our respective base--without interference from the other. The ultimate of-to each their own!

opcorn2