Whats your take on marriage???

Trossi3389

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are you married???

glad you did it and would you do it all over again???

Whats the goods and bads about it???

Lets hear it !!!! :mj14:


been with my girl now for 12 years and it's starting to cross my mind. :rolleyes:
 

saint

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yeah been w/ mine about 5 and she's been putting the ultimatum on me, not cool, but guess i have to bite the bullet sooner or later.

This thread should be interesting!
 

BADTODABONE

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1) was once

2) Glad at the time, dated for 4 years and married at age 32, she was 27 :142hump: married 10 yrs

3)BIATCH ripped me off in a small business

Check the Bank Statements every month

Would I do it again? HELL NO
 
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Was close a month ago until my soon to be mrs. decided she couldn't commit to it. Now I'm back to playing the field like Babe Ruth in his hey-day! At least I'm hoping it turns out this well! lol!
 

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Best thing I ever did. But I got lucky with a great girl. A lot of work on both sides is needed through the years. We married young and had a kid, not something I recommend, but in my case it worked out great. I have friends who are not so Lucky. It's a crap shoot. But you have been going with her for 12 years!!!!!! Thats longer than most people stay married!
 

taoist

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Marriage is like a pair of shears Oft times working in opposite directions, but punishing anyone that comes between them.
--Sydney Smith

One advantage of marriage It seems to me Is that when you fall out of love with him Or he falls out of love with you It keeps you together until maybe you fall in again.
--Judith Viorst

Marriage is the only war where you sleep with the enemy.
--Gary Busey

The more you invest in a marriage, the more valuable it becomes.
--Amy Grant

We all have a childhood dream that when there is love, everything goes like silk, but the reality is that marriage requires a lot of compromise.
--Raquel Welch

A sound marriage is not based on complete frankness; it is based on a sensible reticence.
--Morris L. Ernst

Someone once asked me why women don't gamble as much as men do and I gave the commonsensical reply that we don't have as much money. That was a true but incomplete answer. In fact, women's total instinct for gambling is satisfied by marriage.
--Gloria Steinem

To dance with a man is to concentrate a twelvemonth's regulation fire upon him in the fragment of an hour. To pass to courtship without acquaintance, to pass to marriage without courtship, is a skipping of terms reserved for those alone who tread this royal road.
--Thomas Hardy

Marriage is not a word; it is a sentence.
--King Vidor

I think men who have a pierced ear are better prepared for marriage. They've experienced pain and bought jewelry.
--Rita Rudner

Is not marriage an open question, when it is alleged, from the beginning of the world, that such as are in the institution wish to get out, and such as are out wish to get in?
--Ralph Waldo Emerson

The cure for love is marriage, and the cure for marriage is love again
--Unknown

Getting married for sex is like buying a 747 for the free peanuts
--Jeff Foxworthy

In marriage, each partner is to be an encourager rather than a critic, a forgiver rather than a collector of hurts, an enabler rather than a reformer.
--H. Norman Wright and Gary J. Oliver

If there were something called Marriage Reserve, I'd sign up for it in a heartbeat. That way I could sleep with other women on one weekend each month and two weeks in the summer, and my wife couldn't do crap about it.
--Mike Wilson

Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterwards.
--Benjamin Franklin

Marriage is like a cage; one sees the birds outside desperate to get in, and those inside equally desperate to get out.
--Michel de Montaigne

There's only one way to have a happy marriage and as soon as I learn what it is I'll get married again.
--Clint Eastwood

They say love is blind...and marriage is an institution. Well, I'm not ready for an institution for the blind just yet.
--Mae West

If marriage were outlawed, only outlaws would have in-laws.
--Unknown

Car Manufacturer's formula for a successful marriage : Stick to one model!
--Unknown

The conception of two people living together for twenty-five years without having a cross word suggests a lack of spirit only to be admired in sheep.
--Alan Patrick Herbert

Marriages are made in heaven. But, again, so are thunder, lightning, tornados and hail
--Unknown

Love is an obsessive delusion that is cured by marriage.
--Dr. Karl Bowman

All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest-never viscious or cruel. Good battle is healthy abnd constructive, and brings to a marrriage the principal of equal partnership.
--Ann Landers

A simple enough pleasure, surely, to have breakfast alone with one's husband, but how seldom married people achieve it.
--Anne Morrow Lindbergh

A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' come together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
--Dave Meurer

Man's best possession is a sympathetic wife.
--Euripedes Antigone

Love at first sight is easy to understand; it's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle.
--Sam Levenson

For two people in a marriage to live together day after day is unquestionably the one miracle the Vatican has overlooked.
--Bill Cosby

I pay very little regard...to what a young person says on the subject of marriage. If they profess a disinclination for it, I only set it down that they haven't seen the right person yet.
--Jane Austen

The kind of marriage you make depends upon the kind of person you are. If you are a happy, well-adjusted person, the chances are your marriage will be a happy one. If you have made adjustments so far with more satisfaction than distress, you are likely to make your marriage and family adjustments satisfactorily. If you are discontented and bitter about your lot in life, you will have to change before you can expect to live happily ever after.
--Evelyn Duvall and Reuben Hill When You Marry

Marriage -- as its veterans know well -- is the continuous process of getting used to things you hadn't expected.
--Tom Mullen

The middle years of marriage are the most crucial. In the early years, spouses want each other and in late years, they need each other.
--Rebecca Tilly

If you want to sacrifice the admiration of many men for the criticism of one, go ahead, get married.
--Katherine Hepburn

The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing -- and then marry him.
--Cher

Never say marriage has more joy than pain.
--Euripedes Alcestis

One man's folly is another man's wife.
--Helen Rowland

Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence
--Henry Louis Mencken

Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience
--Oscar Wilde

Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry.
--Tom Mullen

If there was strife and contention in the home, very little in life would compensate for it.
--Lawana Blackwell

"when two people are under the influence of the most violent, most insane, most delusive, and most transient of passions. They are required to swear that they will remain in that excited, abnormal, and exhausting condition continuously until death do them part."
--George Bernard Shaw

Nearly all marriages, even happy ones, are mistakes: in the sense that almost certainly (in a more perfect world' or even with a little more care in this imperfect one) both partners might be found more suitable mates. But the real soul-mate is the one you are married to.
--J.R.R. Tolkien


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Trossi3389

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StevieD said:
Best thing I ever did. But I got lucky with a great girl. A lot of work on both sides is needed through the years. We married young and had a kid, not something I recommend, but in my case it worked out great. I have friends who are not so Lucky. It's a crap shoot. But you have been going with her for 12 years!!!!!! Thats longer than most people stay married!

yeah we have no kids, i got 1, but not from her. also thats the thing, we both seen too many marriages hit the chitter. i already got her the rock and made it her promise ring this past christmas.

i don't know, :shrug: maybe ill just wait 12 more years. :lol:

Toast LMAO!! sounds so true too. ;)
 

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Lots of work and give and take. It's not easy. As you get older as I am you get more mellow. Always remind her you love her. It helps a great deal. When you have kids play a big part in there needs and dreams. Listen more then you talk. It seems like survival at times. Hey it's a tough world out there. Don't ask more of her then your willing to give. Yes you will fight like heck some days. Or it will seem like it. Thats good it cleans the air. But remember to hug when your done blowing off steam.
 

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I have been married twice and I have to tell you that I cannot remember any time I was so happy. I still remember in great detail all the emotion and wonderment that I went through......the day that bitch finally left!!!!!! Yes, I must say I thought I knew what love was until she sat down and turned off the Cubs game and turned on the King of Queens. Yea I used to love it when I would ask for sex and she would "pencil me in for 2:30 on saturday". Of course by then she would find a reason to get out of it. I have been divorced for damn near three years and haven't been to "linens and things" since. They are both happily remarried with children now and I am happily unmarried with porn and sportschannels. Marriage is an institution and you have to be crazy to get in it. You want love get a dog.
 

taoist

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fatdaddycool said:
I have been married twice and I have to tell you that I cannot remember any time I was so happy. I still remember in great detail all the emotion and wonderment that I went through......the day that bitch finally left!!!!!! Yes, I must say I thought I knew what love was until she sat down and turned off the Cubs game and turned on the King of Queens. Yea I used to love it when I would ask for sex and she would "pencil me in for 2:30 on saturday". Of course by then she would find a reason to get out of it. I have been divorced for damn near three years and haven't been to "linens and things" since. They are both happily remarried with children now and I am happily unmarried with porn and sportschannels. Marriage is an institution and you have to be crazy to get in it. You want love get a dog.

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been dateing mine for 14 years.we have a 12 year old boy.but never tied the knot.we do live together though.so i supose its bout the same without the legal ties.
 

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Married twice. First time 11 years. Second time, we just celebrated 21 years. As you grow older, you realize how important it is to have someone who professes to love you for the jerk you are.

For those who are living together without a long-term contract, think about your mate if something should happen to you. If you indeed love her, provide for her in case you have to take the big dirt nap. Remember that she will not receive any of your social security or perhaps even your pension money.
 
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