Men vs. Women and dating....Who Pays ??

[The Boys]

This question came up the other day with me and two of my male friends, which both happen to be married, I am single. This question is as follows:

1. If I take a girl out on a date, a date meaning I asked her out, I will pay, that's a given, no questions asked. :SIB

2. Girl asks me out for lunch, dinner or drinks, who pays??? Remember she asked me out.:SIB

3. Is the guys always suppose to pay for the girl??? :shrug:

 

[Blackman]

This question came up the other day with me and two of my male friends, which both happen to be married, I am single. This question is as follows:

1. If I take a girl out on a date, a date meaning I asked her out, I will pay, that's a given, no questions asked. :SIB

2. Girl asks me out for lunch, dinner or drinks, who pays??? Remember she asked me out.:SIB

3. Is the guys always suppose to pay for the girl??? :shrug:

At least give the "reach" for the bill in all cases.

If it's the first time you're out, I'd pay no matter what. If you've seen her a few times, and she has asked you out for the lunch, make the effort, but if she insists, let her have it.

 

[The Boys]

I must tell you guys it's very refreshing when the girl offers to pay, even if I insist on paying or end up paying, I think it shows character. Some women just take it for granted, even just friends.

 

[3 Seconds]

This question came up the other day with me and two of my male friends, which both happen to be married, I am single. This question is as follows:

1. If I take a girl out on a date, a date meaning I asked her out, I will pay, that's a given, no questions asked. :SIB

2. Girl asks me out for lunch, dinner or drinks, who pays??? Remember she asked me out.:SIB

3. Is the guys always suppose to pay for the girl??? :shrug:

1. Of course

2. I would let her pay for the first drink maybe, & then I would pick up the tab from there...assuming this is a 1st time out together thing....

3. No. It depends on the situation you are in...

 

[bleedingpurple]

I always attempt to pay, but I would allow her to pay if she was very insistent.

Quick story... About 10 years ago I asked this gal to go out on a date and we went to Olive Garden. She ordered a glass of wine. I took the bill at the end of the night and the glass of wine was like 30 some bucks, more than what the meals were. I payed it, but never asked that bitch out again.

 

[Agent 0659]

Just pay you cheap bastard. That's the only reason you got the date in the first place Mr. Hillfiger, she thought you had bank.

:142smilie

 

[kellyindallas]

My opinion is that for the first few dates the guy should always pay, assuming he is the one asking out. Thereafter, I frequently pick up the tab or at least offer. I've had many guys tell me I'm one of the few that ever do.

If I offered on the first or second date (which I have) and the guy lets me pay, it's kind of a red flag that's he's a tightwad. I mean, if you're not even going to pay for the first couple of dates, when are you going to pay? It's just a sign of not being a very generous person and I don't like it. They always do seem tickled when I offer, though. It's cute.

If the girl NEVER even offers to pay, that's a sign to the guys.

 

[Agent 0659]

Boys, are you related to AR?

 

[The Boys]

Just pay you cheap bastard. That's the only reason you got the date in the first place Mr. Hillfiger, she thought you had bank.

:142smilie

I don't like being played........some women know how to take advantage. :nono:

 

[The Boys]

Boys, are you related to AR?

Yes AR is my youngest son....:mj07:

 

[Skins1080]

I say split it most of the time. Once in awhile it is a nice suprise to treat someone to a dinner, but it should go both ways (not just one person always doing the treating).

 

[vinnie]

 

[Kanuck]