Yeah, can you imagine if he had come on here asking whether he should get rammed in the ass with a dildo? That would have just been crazy!
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Yeah, can you imagine if he had come on here asking whether he should get rammed in the ass with a dildo? That would have just been crazy!
What in the world does "going out and getting laid" have to do with the guys problems? Some of this advice should be set aside for a two year old to listen to.
Bucs, go in ur bathroom and look in the mirror and say to the guy looking back that enuf is enuf. That is how i stopped feeling sorry for myself when i was 24. You are doing the worst possible thing in order to recover. Sitting home and just thinking is the brutal way out. I only read the first and 4th page of some of these garbage post. JR had some major shit to deal with and he somehow survived. Dust urself off and start over again. Got to love the high testosterone crowd. Preaching getting laid like it is somehow the cure of life.
Bucs, go in ur bathroom and look in the mirror and say to the guy looking back that enuf is enuf. That is how i stopped feeling sorry for myself when i was 24. You are doing the worst possible thing in order to recover. Sitting home and just thinking is the brutal way out. I only read the first and 4th page of some of these garbage post. JR had some major shit to deal with and he somehow survived. Dust urself off and start over again. Got to love the high testosterone crowd. Preaching getting laid like it is somehow the cure of life.
Been working out some, doing some running, basketball, pushups and crunches. Amazing how much fat I have on me. I'm an overweight 220.
Anyways, contacted a few gyms about training some MMA. Lets see how this goes...
I'd love to get back into tip top shape, and around 185-190.
Had some rough couple of days. Getting better. I need to quit being down on myself, but I understand it's going to naturally happen. Everyday is a new day, but that doesn't mean everyday is a good day. Time will heal all wounds, you never know what the future holds. I have to take each day one at a time and deal with them as they come.
Anyways, contacted a few gyms about training some MMA. Lets see how this goes...
I'd love to get back into tip top shape, and around 185-190.
Had some rough couple of days. Getting better. I need to quit being down on myself, but I understand it's going to naturally happen. Everyday is a new day, but that doesn't mean everyday is a good day. Time will heal all wounds, you never know what the future holds. I have to take each day one at a time and deal with them as they come.
Sometimes when you realize how things are going to be you have to accept it. You can't change the past, but make yourself a better person from it. Time heals all wounds, that doesn't mean you won't have bad days, but you have to fight through it.
I feel like for the first time in a long time, I can see the light at the end of the tunnel
It's going to take some time, but I'm going to get there.
I've spent all this time worrying about the past and not looking at the future. I failed to see that just like I'm changing, things change.
I've been INSPIRED, MOTIVATED, DETERMINED.
It's going to take some time, but I'm going to get there.
I've spent all this time worrying about the past and not looking at the future. I failed to see that just like I'm changing, things change.
I've been INSPIRED, MOTIVATED, DETERMINED.
I got a job today, start monday. I work for an organization who works for the special olympics.
I got laid off for the winter from my regular job, and that means I probably won't go back until March. I was desperately looking for something until I ran accross an add in the paper yesterday about it.
I do get paid, but I think the benefit and help it goes towards was my motivation for actually going for the job.
Work Monday thru Thursday, and 2 saturdays a month. Should be interesting.
I got laid off for the winter from my regular job, and that means I probably won't go back until March. I was desperately looking for something until I ran accross an add in the paper yesterday about it.
I do get paid, but I think the benefit and help it goes towards was my motivation for actually going for the job.
Work Monday thru Thursday, and 2 saturdays a month. Should be interesting.
i`m shocked at how much you`ve calmed down,dude...you actually make steven wright seem manic....
glad to see it...just in time for 3 successive weeks of big mma cards....head on over to "off the wall" and throw some elbows...:toast:
glad to see it...just in time for 3 successive weeks of big mma cards....head on over to "off the wall" and throw some elbows...:toast:
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i guess i just finally smelled the coffee
was tired of how i was and what i become
im trying everyday to get better, sometimes its hard though
No desire to join. Going back to school in January. I actually have a few goals set forth and things I want to accomplish now.
Now you sound like your done fealing sorry for yourself. That's best for you.YOU MUST REMEMBER YOUR NUMBER 1. AND DAM IT THATS THE WAY YOU MUST THINK. NOT COCKY OR SMART ASS. BUT BE PROUD. Take care of yourself eat right get as much sleep as you can. If you don't take care of you.You are not going to be good for nobody including you. You will find friends droping you like hot iron. And making new ones you will screw up for sure. So start with you.Your the best you really are. Man I was there 26 years ago I won't for get. Take Care OF You.
You forgot to throw in that u were also throwing up 300 sheets of dryway a day :SIB 1/2 man 1/2 amazing.
I responded back saying I mispoke. My goal wasn't to offend you and even my brother in law laughed when I asked him if it was 300. :shrug:
I guess when it rains, it pours! Got a call today with a job offer here locally. I think I might try to work both jobs for the time being. They're different shifts, and I'd be working about 60hours a week combined, max. I just simply could use to work and money. It'll help take my mind off things.
I'm having better days, but some days are rough. I told the ex that I wouldn't contact her and bother her to be fair to her, but if she wanted to contact me, go for it. I didn't want to come too strong and push her away, but I also wanted to show her that I'm changing and I'm still here.
She's seeing someone else, but it's pretty clear she's on the rebound and still hurting(she's made it pretty obvious). The days we don't talk, it's like everything is good, but it's really just because I don't think about it and everything is hidden. Then the days we talk, it's rough, but that's because I think about everything. But, I don't want her out of my life...so it's a big dilema. I will make it through, one way or another. We talked for 4 hours a couple days ago, accomplished alot. I think she's finally forgiven me, and is believing in me.
Who knows, maybe one day I'll find someone that I'll make happy and vise versa. Right now I've finally convinced myself that I won't just persue anything serious and hurt someone else when I'm not ready to move on. Maybe one day the ex and I will get back together. WHO KNOWS
I know one thing though. I can only take one day at a time, stay positive, and hope for the best.
You guys have all been great, positive or negative. I know it's kind of lame to put everything on here, but it has helped alot.
I'm having better days, but some days are rough. I told the ex that I wouldn't contact her and bother her to be fair to her, but if she wanted to contact me, go for it. I didn't want to come too strong and push her away, but I also wanted to show her that I'm changing and I'm still here.
She's seeing someone else, but it's pretty clear she's on the rebound and still hurting(she's made it pretty obvious). The days we don't talk, it's like everything is good, but it's really just because I don't think about it and everything is hidden. Then the days we talk, it's rough, but that's because I think about everything. But, I don't want her out of my life...so it's a big dilema. I will make it through, one way or another. We talked for 4 hours a couple days ago, accomplished alot. I think she's finally forgiven me, and is believing in me.
Who knows, maybe one day I'll find someone that I'll make happy and vise versa. Right now I've finally convinced myself that I won't just persue anything serious and hurt someone else when I'm not ready to move on. Maybe one day the ex and I will get back together. WHO KNOWS
I know one thing though. I can only take one day at a time, stay positive, and hope for the best.
You guys have all been great, positive or negative. I know it's kind of lame to put everything on here, but it has helped alot.
