Arogance of today's athletes and fans. What am I missing here?

neverteaseit

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Probably gonna piss some of the masses off with the ravenous fans we have today but to me the stuff that goes on into today's sports is mind boggling. Lockouts. strikes, esculating ticket prices, seal clubbing of fans for supporting their teams and it goes on and on and on. Yet many ignore the arogance of today's athletes and act is if they are gods. Talking sports to some people is worse than talking politics, religion or too a drunk person. It is becoming nearly impossible and a waste of time.

I have been a sports fan since I was a child. As the years go by and there are many, I am finding it harder and harder for myself to support an establishment that really seems to have no care for the " TRUE" fans.

The MLB ALLSTAR game has really struck me this year. Mainly due to the fact of one individual. Mr 3000 Derek Jeter. My thoughts on this occured way before the main stream media started debating it. In my eyes what he has done is basically shit on those who have made him millions and when I say millions I mean to the tune of 225 million in salary alone over his career. In some shape, way or form "US" fans have contributed to the monies he has and others have earned in various ways.

Yea it's only an ALLSTAR game some will say. If memory serves me correct though the ALLSTAR game was for the fans. It was a way of saying Thank You for the support. It was a time when kids could see their favorite athletes and a rare chance to get an up close look at these athletes. A time that they are probably more accessible than any other time during the season. A time when a young kid could throw a ball on the field to his favorite baseball player and get an autograph without being charged 100+ dollars for it.

Maybe I see things much differently. I can reflect on years of past and to me the athletes, the environment and their appreciation of fans has declined in many ways. Maybe it is the new society. I have no idea. To me something is truly a miss.

Jeter is not the only one who has shunned on the masses and he will surely not be the last, but at this time he is the flavor of the day so to say. For him to not even make an appearance at the AllStar game is a slap in the face to all baseball fans young and old. He was voted in by the fans. He should be there for the fans. Realistically he was not even and ALLSTAR this year which is even more a kiss of the ass cheek to the masses.

For him to even say that he is emotionally and mentally drained is a farce. To me it just shows his true arogance and in some ways his thought process. I am sorry but if you want to know what emotional and mentally draining means you need to ask one individual. Mr. Henry Aaron. What this man went through during his pursuit of Babe Ruth's homerun record is what makes Mr. Henry
Aaron in my eyes one of the greatest individuals in our history. Athlete or not. Mr. Aaron never wavered from the fact that while many of the white folks would have rather seen him dead he continued to speak with his bat. Not on twitter, facebook or in the papers. On the field. This never stopped him from being an example for all. He continued to show his appreciation for the game and the fans. The death threats never stopped him from being an ambassador of the game either.

I could go on and on about this man. Too me he was someone I would want any kid to admire, respect and appreciate. I cannot say that for many of the athletes of today.

Thus I get back to Jeter. There will be no argument that will justify his actions to me as a so-called fan. For him to turn his back on those that have supported him is a just another slap in the face from today's athlete. It happens more and more from the so-called good guys. I know many will argue for him. So be it. I just cannot agree with the principal.

Let's face it. Gone are the glory days so to say. Fans of today are not the same as yester years. Now we sit in the stands with signs that say I LOVE YOU Derek, marry me, i want to have your baby etc. Hoping to get our 15 minutes of fame on t.v. or to be the talk of twitter I presume.

You can hardly go to a game without a brawl breaking out. I mean come on "Seriously". We have a guy who's life will never be the same because he attended a game wearing another teams jersey. Is this what sports has come to? Has the love for sport turned to an obsession? I am beginning to wonder if we have more wacko's then fans in the stands at today's games.

I realize not everyone applies to the statement above. I don't think anyone can deny it has become more frequent though. It shouldn't exist at all. No matter who you root for you should be able to show your support without the worry of being beaten to a pulp.

Even though our so called HERO's will continue to rub it on our faces, it seems that more of us attend. I for one am about to an impasse. And no Jeter is not the reason. It has been brewing for many years. But no matter what happens it seems that many will take it with a grain of salt and conitnue to support the society as a whole.

I could write for hours about this subject. The main ? for most is am I the only one who feels like something is a miss? Am I alone in seeing what is occuring with today's sports and fans? Curious to see what others think. I will go back on trying to figure out why I need to twitter that I am about to take a shit now.
 
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i agree with most of this.....long,well thought out post.....the aaron stuff...the generational differences....spot on....i`ve lost interest in basenball myself...so i feel you...

i don`t agree about jeter....i couldn`t find how many times the guy has missed all star games(and there have been many for him),but i do know that he had a string of 8 in a row....

the guy`s been the epitome of what a professional athlete should be for 20 years...and he did have a calf injury recently before coming back for a few games....

not a yankeee fan....and i can see laying some heat on some guys(like maybe a-rod)....but personally,i give jeter a pass...

his body of work...his comportment on and off the field is about as good as it gets....i think he`s the wrong guy to pick nits with...

just my opinion....i`m sure many others will disagree...

good post,though...
 
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Amen.

I mentioned in another thread about The Captain that you won't meet a bigger fan of how he "plays the game" and "handles himself." This time, he is way off base though. Truth be told though, he doesn't care about me, or you, or the kid who returned the ball to him. Does he care more about the legacy of the game, than most people, probably, and that's most likely why he's been admired so much in the first place. That doesn't give him a free pass to pull crap like this though.

But, what to do though? Just stop going? Sports, in a way, is part of our culture...then again, in a way, it's not. That all depends on what you're looking for in life. I enjoy sitting in the bleachers on a summer day with a couple of ice cold ones. But you're right...to what extent? If I wear a Yankees jersey at Fenway Park, at minimum I'll get pelted with beer, and hope the Sox win, so they'll take it easy on me. But if I don't go to the game, do John Henry, or Derek Jeter, or any of those guys care? Nope. They only care when the masses react. Good example is the Red Sox last off season. Ratings were way down. You have a GM in Epstein who wanted to reel in spending (relatively), and stay the course by developing young talent. Unfortunately, we're in the Shark Tank up in Boston, and people want wins yesterday. Enter Carl Crawford and Adrian Gonzalez. Would Epstein have pulled the trigger for AG, absolutely...CC, I'm not sure about. But it will get people talking about the team again, and improve on the ratings which were on the decline. It is a big business, and I know everyone realizes that, but I think a lot of people have trouble coming to grips with it.

I remember watching a hoop game this year, where actually at the half time they were honoring some veterans, and Charles Barkley said probably one of the smartest things I've ever heard him say. It was something to the extent that there are only 5 legit professions in the world, doctor, military, teacher, firefighter, police officer...

Sadly it's become leagues that are more about pushing their own agendas to make more money than it is for the "love of the game." It goes back to the restaurant debate...if I don't like one, I won't ever go back. The question is, are we willing to do it to our sports teams?

Great post :0074

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I had this revelation (what you write about) a few years ago.

We still go to a game or two, especially when out of town as it's cool to see new stadiums but, since about 1999, I have not spent one penny on any type of MLB or NBA shirts, hats or any other logo item.

Just my way of expressing myself regarding the same frustrations you write about.
 

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Hogman and Weasie normally I would agree with you about giving the Capt. a pass. But not this time for me. I think it is safe to say that Jeter's career is in the twilight phase. Other than winning a World Series the only other spot for him bigger than his 3,000th hit will be the time he is inducted into the Hall of Fame.

For him too not make an appearance really seems strange for me. He could have flown out, signed some autographs, been introduced and flew back home. If he was really drained then why did he play Sunday's game? He could have easily told the Yankee's that "hey I need some rest". I am going to do the right thing and make an appearance at the ALLSTAR game and then ask that I be given a game or two off. I doubt anyone would have questioned any of it then.

I am sure there are fans that bought these tickets way in advanced for a chance to see Jeter or get his autograph and even more so after he just got his 3,000th hit. Not all Yankee fans live in NY and it is not that easy for everyone to attend games outside of their area.

I think he has made a poor choice and and even shittier one for the fans. But like nearly all sports fans we will forgive and forget once he makes another great play, hits a HR or wins a World Series.

Appreciate the replies.
 

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Agree with original letter. Jeter should be there. BUT as for AARON. I think what he went through is terrible. Not just the HOME RUN Chase, but playing thru the racism of the 50's and 60's, however there is no shortage of stories how Willie Mays and he have conducted themselves on the autograph trail at card shows over the years.

I'll never forget when I started going to local shows in the late 80's and early 90's. I asked a national dealer why Clemente cards and memorabilia were worth more than MAYS and AARONS. His reply was, "Because those 2 son of a bitches are still alive." :nono:

I'd like to think today's players aren't the same as my hero's, but maybe the fact that those of yesteryear showed up was more to do with financial matters than actually wanting to be there.:shrug:

PS. If the game was in YANKEE STADIUM would he be there? :scared
 

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There were pros in the old days that were assholes also. Read Lefty Grove tore up a kid's thing that he wanted him to sign and laughed. Think Ty Cobb would sign autographs today for a hour? Ted Williams? Think they wouldn't sign these kind of contracts today? Demand trades? Human nature is human nature. If players today didn't have some enjoyment for what they do why then do you see homeplate celebrations for walkoffs even with losing teams?
Anyway, should Jeter have played. Yeah I think so. Do I personally worship players or teams? No, gambling kind of killed that for me even though I am still a Redskins, Lakers, Dodgers :facepalm: :facepalm: :facepalm: :facepalm: fan. Do I get in rabid arguements with people about sports? No, I have some good natured ribbing with some people I work with but never ever a heated arguement. Must be some strange people you hang out with for that. Then again I don't go to sports bars so perhaps they are drunk in those cases. As for going on strike, I am not remotely sympathetic to the NBA players but I do feel NFL players deserve what they get due to the extreme punishment they take and the money that is made in this sport. More power to them.
 
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