does this make me look fat?

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is there a right way to answer this line of questioning???

i mean, is clearly a touchy subject matter when it comes to women, though doesnt honesty trump feelings? i mean, the fact that i'm secure enough in my feelings for whomever is asking that feel they should be able to handle --and better yet-- deserve the truth??


"who cares if you LOOK fat--so long as is not an issue with me--in my mind you're fine(so long as i'm the only one whose opinion matters--which should be the case)" i thought would work, but doesnt

i mean, theres few and far between people who actually DON'T have an issue with their body...so...


i would think it better to be truthful and open...even if i say, no, it doesnt don't...isnt she gonna think i'm trying to be nice--and not say what i think???

:shrug:

suffice to say- i spent hours trying to pull her back from the ledge that my simply sharing what i thought spiraled into.

she even says shes not happy with her body--and i really dont have issue with, really...though would enjoy a happier version of her, if she says that she'd be happier if this wasnt like this and so on. does that make sense?
guess not my place to say anything--and be supportive??? or is that being enabling somehow?
 
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thanks my man

thanks my man

Skulnik said:
Tball, someone posted this a few months back, I sent it to my wifes email.

http://teamsugar.com/group/1709761/blog/2676679

:SIB
Click to expand...


i laughed soo loud at the office when i read this one, had everyone staring at me---which usually i dont mind

My wife and I are watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire while we werein bed. I turned to her and said, 'Do you want to have sex?'

'No,' she answered.

I then said, 'Is that your final answer?'

She didn't even look at me this time, simply saying 'Yes.'

So I said, 'Then I'd like to phone a friend.'

And that's when the fight started....


least i got the laugh a day part outta the way...that was good, much needed, thanks
 
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does this xxxx make me look fat?

standard response should be:

No sweetie, it's your @ss that makes you look fat. Not the jeans.
 
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