Pinky, Finemail, ez$, DeDe, or any of the men out there......

[BahamaMama]

not so serious topic, but a dead serious question:


given the opportunity to pursue a *relationship* (and i use the term loosley) which would you think is the smarter move.....???


the person that you love the most, or the person that loves you the most? and why??

(keep the variable in mind that you care very much for the one that loves you the most)

 

[BleedDodgerBlue]

not so serious topic, but a dead serious question:


given the opportunity to persue a *relationship* (and i use the term loosley) which would you think is the smarter move.....???


the person that you love the most, or the person that loves you the most? and why??

(keep the variable in mind that you care very much for the one that loves you the most)

I'm not either of the above quoted posters, and i'm positive i'm not like them, but i do qualify as a male, and the only answer i can give you is i like my bacon well cooked and eggs scrambled and served to me promptly whenever i decide to wake up. For that lifestyle, the only answer is the person who loves me the most.
hope that helps mama?

 

[BahamaMama]

thanks for your input BDB. Yes, i wanted a response from both men and women (just needed to include a couple of them under the women since they are both acting like one)

when you wake up, let me know and i'll deliver your breakfast

would your opinion be different if you knew that you were going to be the one treated like a king either way?

 

[freelancc]

the person who loves me the most.. :SIB

 

[RexBudler]

the person I love the most.. :SIB

 

[BahamaMama]

Rex and freelancc ..... either of you guys care to answer the *and why* part to go with your answers?

 

[RexBudler]

Rex and freelancc ..... either of you guys care to answer the *and why* part to go with your answers?

Sure thing sweety.....

I feel that there is not a better feeling than fullfilling and gratfying your own heart. If you have a chance to be with the one you love than you have to take it. It also depends on how much the girl you are in love with more loves you back. Also, the one who loves me the most will still be there for me ( if she loves me so much ) if things dont work out with the one I love the most :scared :scared ........

You have a chance to go after whats in your heart, take the risk, it just may be worth it

Pinky or finemail......feel free to contact me at anytime......Bahama will tell you what a nice gentleman I am, wont ya Annie :scared :scared

 

[pinky]

Yep I am selfish?I gotta go with the one that loves me most. If I cared about the person I think it would be alright?.
If it was reversed how does the other feel about me???
**** now you got me rethinking my answer?.
My answer would change if I was treated like a queen?that way I could get the best out of both?it is a good feeling to love?and if the other treated me like a queen that would help make up for some of the lack of love

 

[pinky]

What is your response BahamaMama??

 

[freelancc]

i have gotten what i wished for a few times.. :scared

its just works best for me when i am the prey..

 

[RexBudler]

i have gotten what i wished for a few times.. :scared

its just works best for me when i am the prey..

:scared :scared :mj07:

 

[freelancc]

:mj07: :mj07: :mj07:

 

[bjfinste]

The smarter move is going with the one that loves you most, simply because whoever has less love in the relationship has the most control in the relationship.

That being said, as a hopeless romantic, I would go with whoever I loved the most.

 

[Agent 0659]

Just sneak around and do them both, the one who loves you the most will put up with a lot so live with the other one and just hit it on the weekend with the other.

Remember, Agent is here to help :SIB

 

[pinky]

Just sneak around and do them both, the one who loves you the most will put up with a lot so live with the other one and just hit it on the weekend with the other.

Remember, Agent is here to help :SIB

:mj07: :mj07: :mj07: :mj07:
I think that is what I will do

 

[bear]

Bahama Mama,

No Question...the one whol loves you the most..
that is the one who will endear him/herself to you over time
Love grows and becomes stronger with time...the person over the passion I guess
One who is not as intense about the relationship may, over time,
cause a burning flame to flicker..or even go out.. Thats my take.... fwiw

bear

 

[hawkeye]

Neither--not going to force the issue either way--just wait until it is both for you and them.

 

[Hokie Fan]

I personally go for the person that hates me the most
For some reason I am attracted to what I cannot get
(Like a winning night lately)

 

[BahamaMama]

WOW, thanks to most of you guys/gals for some spectacular advice!! i (embarassedly) expected a highter rate of smart @ssed responses, but appreciate the ones i got MUCH more!!!!

Pinky, if you're truly female, i'd appreciate it if you'd give Jack permission to give me your e-mail addy, cuz you seem to have a great *street smart* head on your shoulders!!!!! and right now, my mind is F'd up BIG TIME!!!!!!!!!!

Agent, gotta say i WISH i could follow your line of thinking...LMFAO!!!!!

have a few posts from here to quote4 tomorrow, but right now, need some sleep

again, thank you all..... was some VERY valuable input.

 

[pinky]

BahamaMama,
Truly a female? Yes I am....have you met many women that weren't "truly women"?....
I am not sure what e-mail address I gave, but you have my permission to ask for it....however I desperately need an avatar....so posting works well for me....I feel naked without one....no naked is a good thing....I feel cold and naked without one....