Take back the red card you gave me (dirtbag?) and give me green!
3 putt avoidance is a huge tour stat. Getting that ball in the hole is what it is all about. You cannot choose a line for a putt until you decide how hard you are going to hit it. Speed is everything. If you are trying to hit it 2 ft past everytime, that is too hard. The cup shrinks about 20% for a putt hit that hard. Dying the ball into the hole allows it to topple in on the sides instead of spinning out. You don't see great pool players hammering the ball in the pocket.
If you think about it logically, putting is not that difficult. How tough is making a back and forth stroke on a 15 ft putt? Almost anyone can do it, and there are as many techniques, strokes, and putters as there are golfers. You need to change your focus. Quit worrying about your putterhead (you probably at this point even watch it during the stroke:nono: ) and focus on your target. Quit thinking about what you DON'T want to do and focus on what you DO want to do. Like shooting a gun, aim small/miss small. Find a blade of grass in the back of the cup on short ones, and a ball mark or something on longer putts and get target oriented. If the putt doesn't break more than 4 inches, play it INSIDE the hole. I have played in scrambles with many a high handicap, and you tell them 1 ball outside the cup and they hit it a cup out and think it was a good putt. Bang those 3 footers in the back without fear of missing, and topple those longer ones in the front. Practice putting while looking at the hole when warming up. And take a few practice strokes on course while looking at your target. Then get over the ball and let it fly. Also, try looking at the front of the ball instead of the back, it helps with following through.
Another tip, take a sharpie and put a stripe on the side of your ball and line it up on 5 footers and in. It takes one thing to worry about out of the equation, all you have to do then is stroke it.
GL!