Women help please.

[Sylvan]

I've been divorced for about two months. I did the "bang as many women as you can now" thing and that was fun. But now I've met two women online, have yet to meet either one in person, and I like them both...more than just wanting to try and sleep with them.

My question is do I tell each of them that I'm am communicating with another woman? Is this the right thing to do? Or do I not say anything since I'm not in a relationship with either of them and set up separate times to meet them and decide which one I want to spend time with?

I'm so clueless with this. If I tell them it could scare both of them off. Or if I tell them they may respect that I was honest with them and still want to meet me.

Help!

 

[CryBoy]

Hedge?

 

[The Joker]

Don't say shit.

It's not their business until you're in a real relationship.

 

[GRIFFIN112]

$#*@ NO YOU DONT!


NOTHING WRECKS A RELATIONSHIP FASTER THAN HONESTY!!!!

 

[hedgehog]

Hedge?

do not tell either one of them until you decide which one your going to see on a long term basis :shrug:

I met this chick on match.com and her picture is nothing like her in real life:facepalm: her pic was from a couple years ago, she gained a few lbs before I met her, women are deceiving, I just took a pic of myself with my cell phone and posted it that day, hell I had nothing to hide...meet them both and see what they really look like but don't tell them anything yet...

 

[Sylvan]

Thanks guys. I'm now leaning towards not saying anything. Thanks again.

 

[Livin'tillthEnd]

i thought all those posters were dudes--interesting

 

[kickserv]

All seriousness.

Meet both in person before you decide ANYTHING.

Trust me on this.

 

[hedgehog]

All seriousness.

Meet both in person before you decide ANYTHING.

Trust me on this.

exactly...women will deceive your ass with their pics

 

[hedgehog]

 

[kellyindallas]

Sylvan, at that stage you don't need to say anything. It's a given that most people not in a relationship are keeping their options open. Anyone who expects otherwise at that point is a little off. Go on your dates and see how and if u hit it off in person. Good luck!

 

[DZ]

i thought all those posters were dudes--interesting

:mj07:

 

[Betone]

Sylvan, at that stage you don't need to say anything. It's a given that most people not in a relationship are keeping their options open. Anyone who expects otherwise at that point is a little off. Go on your dates and see how and if u hit it off in person. Good luck!

What kelly said......:0008

 

[CryBoy]

What kelly said......:0008

and take it from Hedgehog as well... he's living it.

 

[ppabart]

I think the key here is not what happens now.....but the situation that is going to present itself in the future. There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating two women independantly, but once you start developing a relationship that is more than simply dating, that's when a choice needs to be made. It's really easy to convince yourself that you are doing nothing wrong and justify how to continue to date two women......but at that point, things just start to get out of control. So my advice is to just be careful. Don't allow yourself to get attached to both women. Once that happens, you're in trouble.

Just my two cents.

 

[The Boys]

Don't say one word............BUT think about what you will say when she asks you this question.

"Are you seeing anyone else"

A lie can come back to bite you in the ass.

 

[Sportsaholic]

Roll the Dice, see how they both feel about a Threesome.......:0003

 

[gardenweasel]

My question is do I tell each of them that I'm am communicating with another woman? Is this the right thing to do?
Help!

i would say "no" and "no".....it`s a very complex situation(we`re talking wheels within wheels shit here)....imho,i wouldn`t give either lady any reason not to sleep with me(let them figure that out on their own)....

glad things are looking up...g.l.,man...

 

[Old School]

meet both in person..

make it crystal clear you are a much valued free agent with talent galore.

further you are a seeking a steady partner who has nearly every character trait you have wanted in a women and are willing to spend the time among a selected few to reach that goal..

ya only get to pick and choose for so many years and then you are limited by father time and your own williness to take the time and effort to select that ulta suitable mate.


leave no stone unturned nor any question left unasked.

The livin' and partnership guidelines you set now are the ones that the potential partner can weigh honestly and clearly with no secondguessing as to where you stand and what you are worthy of.


The weak and insecure will weed themselves out and the strong and secure will come to the forefront.


Blatant honesty..What you see is what ya get.

You are not to her likin'...

Thats cool ..wish her well..

NEXT...

 

[hedgehog]

Roll the Dice, see how they both feel about a Threesome.......:0003

The voice of reason as always Sports :SIB