(MY FATHER PASSED AWAY TODAY)

dogface

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Jim-

I understand someone may pop in this thread, and have the odacity to showcase their lack of decorum, do to my posting in your thread since I left without fanfare. But things like this, when someone is hurting and understandably so is too important to pass up.

I have yet to have a parent pass on, but have come close with my father having a triple bypass years ago. But I can empathize with you on how true and scary those feelings are. Although I have read in your post that you and your dad were different people, I would assume that somewhere in your thoughts that your father was your hero, not unlike my feelings for my father.

They may not be perfect in life, but they are ours and that makes them more than special in my eyes. Since we both have the same Irish heritage I thought I would leave this short prayer for you that has been delivered to many an Irish during eulogy:

In the words of the ancient Irish prayer, as you travel on:

May the road always rise up to meet you,
And the wind always be at your back,
May the sun warm you by day,
And the moon and stars guide you by night,
Dad, be safe on your journey!


My prayers are with you and your family Jim, but rest assured your father needs none. He has already captured perfection and is living the dream in a God only knows beautiful place.

Sincerely,

D.G.
 

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Sorry to hear that Jim. I went though that a few years ago with my mom was fast. He is in a better place then we are and he will always be there for you just in a different way. Takes time and if your not upset and have tears of hurt then something is wrong, no need to think any different.

Hang in there my friend

Eric
 

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for those of us whose Dad's are still around, never hesitate to make a phone call and say hi..or stop by and spend time.. ;)
 

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Jim, i feel for you as right now my dad is dying from cancer. he is 66 yrs. And they gave him 6 months :cursin:
he doesn't know this and has said he wouldn't want to know. He's a Marine, he accepted Jesus as his savior and has a godd atittude. my dad, jerry, started chemo. this Monday. I , like you love my Dad. Unless there was really something bad between the two of you, he loves you as much as you love him.
He'll be waiting for you to arrive some day!
If you have the time, (and this goes for all of us MJers) read the book, Embraced By The Light.
If this is what Heaven is like, It will be UNBELIEVEABLE :)
God bless you and your family, Dave
 

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Jim,so sorry to hear about your loss.When its sudden or unexpected the impact is tougher in the beginning.Lost my father 5 yrs ago and everynite when I go to bed I kiss his Manhattan College ring that he wore proudly since 1936.The ring is tied to my bed post and its a great reminder of him and he's life.You'll have that soon.
Again, my prayers and thoughts to you and your family.
 

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Jim, sorry to hear...but I wish my Dad had died
like your's...it took him 6 years with Alzheimers
(ms) before we could put him to rest...it was
the worst of the worst...time heals all pain....
may the Lord be with you... :)
 

Jaxx

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Very sorry to hear of your loss. Have not lost a parent yet. Can only imagine the pain you must feel. God Bless and take care.
 

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Very sorry for your loss Jim. I know you will find the way to keep strong during a difficult time.

Blessings for you and your family and your dear dad.
 

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Just got in from vacation or would have posted sooner. I know you'll be strong to give your mother the strength she needs in the coming days.

I, like you, was raised in an Irish family. My birth father died when I was very young. Mother and grandmother brought me here from Northern Ireland. The love, although rarely, if ever stated, was always there in their actions. I honestly don't remember my mother ever saying I love you unless I said it first. I knew she did It just wasn't said.

Take the time to wrap your arms around your mother and tell her you love her. I know it has helped me over the years.

God Bless.
 
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