Well if you have read some of the posts leading to this then you would know what this is about.. I did meet my ex GF and her son after talking to both on the phone pllus several email exchanges. We hung out in Duluth for most of the day and went our seperate ways.. The kid seems very intelligent with quick wit.. A bit different than me, he is in to skate boarding more and he is one big hormone.. He is polite and courteous and he doesn't talk stupid. Very estute young man I must say. His mother is just a nice of a talker as she once was with that sweet voice but I know underneath it all their is a snake or succubus in there. She has been seperated for several months and there is no romance between us even though she is hinting at it. I have a GF but she is pist by this and I don't blame her but I really don't give a shit and pretty much told her that she can go her seperate way. You would think that she would. I mean it really would not bother me but she wants to hold on.. So anyway the ex and kid live four hours away and I told her that I would like to continue to see the boy at times. We had a fun time and I have since offered to take the boy fishing for 3 days later this summer.. He would love to but his mother wants to come with and I can understand that too but it is not going to fly with the current GF but since I am in this far I am going to do it anyways. Call me a fool but this kid has been through hell and his mother has been foolish.. The current step father I guess treats him like shit.. I guess he treated him well until they were married and then he changed. Married too soon after 6 months.. Then 4 years ago his real father commited a suicide/homicide.. I guess the step father got a real kick out that one.. I guess the kid has just been devastated and does not have a real male role model. She moved up here to be close to her brothers to help set the example.. I really do not know what the problem is but she was worried that he may start hanging around the wrong crowd down in Texas? Don't know what that has to do with it.. Can hang around the wrong crowd in Minne as well. I know this can be a foolish thing to do but I know in myh heart that I will not bail on the kid. Now as for the mother goes she is a bit pushy but I can deal with her. She is not the type to end my and the boy's relationship just because I don't want to date her.. Lets face it, she has gained a good 20 since then and I can pick up younger more attractive chicks. Oh well.. Wish me luck. Just thought I would give you guys who wanted an update the update.
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