I am visiting a couple today who just gave birth to a premie (1 pound, 8 ounces). What is an appropriate gift for this occasion? The father is a Ph.D in math and wife is M.D. (family practice). They obviously don't need money. I feel a card might be inappropriate. There is nothing out there you can buy for premies under 3 pounds. Can I just show up to give emotional support? :shrug: I am not cheap. I just don't know what to give for this situation.