We do "do it for them". That's what you fail to see, because you listen to "news" that doesn't remind you of that. It's more important to show you how shitty your life is, and will continue to be, if Democrats are in power.
It's not condisered normal. It's frowned upon by almost everyone. But, when you have right wing media telling you "Democrats" are for this, I can see where the confusion comes in.