hug her parents and brothers, it's not weird... they will be glad you came... :0074
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hug her parents and brothers, it's not weird... they will be glad you came... :0074
Thanks for the prayers. The last 2 weeks of conversation will ensure that I will never ever forget her, but I realize that I will get over it and move on, unfortunately there are others who may never get over it. 
Sorry to hear man, things will get better with time. Even though you're going through hell right now, try to stay positive - that's the thing that has gotten me best through tough times.
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i wouldn't give two dicks on what that abusing husband thought. I would like it if he saw the text. Go in there and pay ur respects and say hi to the parents and keep your head up.
The funeral's events were sad, shocking, awesome, and all screwed up at the same time. I need to share this cause tears are flowing and it just feels better to express. I'm an emotional heart on my sleeve guy, if I like you.
I arrive, see the pictures of her and sit down. I get up and go back to the lobby and look at more pictures. Really tough to see her as a kid and grow as to how I remember her. Then to see pictures as she evolved into a woman not the young gal I knew but into the full fledge woman, wife, and mother. Her mom seen me before I saw her and comes up to me and says, "oh Trevor" I hugged her and then went to my seat. I picked an isolated chair and began to well up. Shortly after a couple gals sat next to me and one says, " you are Trevor" and I nodded. She just touched my arm and rubbed it. Then others filed in and she never said another word til it ended. This was a great funeral the best I have ever been to as far as some aspects go and yet so distant. People were allowed to talk and it was amazing how many people came and talked about her. I wish I could of but I couldn't. At the end or beginning did not one of her family members or his family members have anything to do with each other. That was a shocker I hugged her brother, dad, and mother. Mom said I will be in touch with you. I left, got to my car crying, cause she had touched so many's lives. People who just met her a few years ago talking about how she had helped them even though going through her tough life.
I arrive, see the pictures of her and sit down. I get up and go back to the lobby and look at more pictures. Really tough to see her as a kid and grow as to how I remember her. Then to see pictures as she evolved into a woman not the young gal I knew but into the full fledge woman, wife, and mother. Her mom seen me before I saw her and comes up to me and says, "oh Trevor" I hugged her and then went to my seat. I picked an isolated chair and began to well up. Shortly after a couple gals sat next to me and one says, " you are Trevor" and I nodded. She just touched my arm and rubbed it. Then others filed in and she never said another word til it ended. This was a great funeral the best I have ever been to as far as some aspects go and yet so distant. People were allowed to talk and it was amazing how many people came and talked about her. I wish I could of but I couldn't. At the end or beginning did not one of her family members or his family members have anything to do with each other. That was a shocker I hugged her brother, dad, and mother. Mom said I will be in touch with you. I left, got to my car crying, cause she had touched so many's lives. People who just met her a few years ago talking about how she had helped them even though going through her tough life.
I never told you guys how we met. My room mate was on match.com. This was 11 years ago and I was like really? So I was watching him go through pics and I seen hers and I was like go back to that one. I read it and decided to write to her. It cost me 30 some odd dollars to email her and she answered. We talked and eventually met at a Duluth Perkins.
She had fake Halloween teeth and said hi with them and started laughing. We hit it off and then I met her parents at the end of the night. They were sitting in a booth not to far away making sure I was not some nut.
I always feel privileged that she chose me and that's my greatest claim to fame. No doubt this gal had every guy in this site emailing her and she chose me.
She chose me, in the past couple weeks we had many talks and I know she had struggled with losing a child from SIDS and had bouts with anorexia. I told her about losing David and she told me, "I'm here to help you." I said you have it all wrong I'm here to help you. She said, " I don't want Trevor the nurse, I just want Trevor!"
She had fake Halloween teeth and said hi with them and started laughing. We hit it off and then I met her parents at the end of the night. They were sitting in a booth not to far away making sure I was not some nut.
I always feel privileged that she chose me and that's my greatest claim to fame. No doubt this gal had every guy in this site emailing her and she chose me.
She chose me, in the past couple weeks we had many talks and I know she had struggled with losing a child from SIDS and had bouts with anorexia. I told her about losing David and she told me, "I'm here to help you." I said you have it all wrong I'm here to help you. She said, " I don't want Trevor the nurse, I just want Trevor!"
Our conversations were great cause we had known each other. Even though we went in different directions we knew what we were about. I told her about my friend Dave and she said that she was here to help me and I said you have that wrong. In here to help you. She said, " I don't want the nurse Trevor,..... I just want Trevor."
so glad you went and it worked out BP, really hope you keep in contact with mom and dad... good luck...
head up bp, thoughts and prayers. how you pick yourself up shows how strong a person you really are!
Yesterday Missi's ashes were spread on her daughter's grave. She would of wanted that. Thinking of her as ash is tough.. really tough.
Man you guys are great, I just wanted people to know that I have received tons of nice emails
from guys on this site. I have replied to them all but what a great group of guys here. Thanks again, every day gets better.
from guys on this site. I have replied to them all but what a great group of guys here. Thanks again, every day gets better.
