Any parents have this problem?

buddy

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The other day, while eating dinner in front of the computer, my teenage daughter said, "Dad, teach me to handicap".

I spit a mouthful of macaroni and cheese all over the monitor and keyboard.
 

TJBELL

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Kind of reminds me of the old "where do babie come from?" thing. :D

hasn't happened yet, thank God!!!

Good luck with THAT answer!!!!

happy cappin'!!!! :)
 

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What's the problem?

She asked about handicapping. So teach her. You're not ashamed of your gambling, I hope. If so, don't do it.

Show her good and bad habits, and how the point spread works and all that. Teach her about money management and keeping a bankroll.

Gambling's only a problem when you do it wrong. Its fun and profitable if you do it right.

My old man had me thinking about the spreads when I was 10. He got his action in before all the game started, didn't chase, did his homework, did his reading, didn't bet outside his means. He was never ashamed of it, and I'd root with him for teams to cover.

I don't see why its any different for a girl.
 

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My daughter has no interest in it (yet) but she does sometimes ask me who I've bet on. Sometimes I'll play dumb: "What makes you think I've got a bet on it?" Then she gives me the hands on hips curled-eyebrow, I wasn't-born yesterday look that only an 11 YO can give. Its a positive sign that she roots for me; of course she hasn't hit High School yet. By then she'll probably be rooting for me to go 0-10 or something.
 

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Valuist said:
A Bears fan living in Minnesota? I can't imagine there are too many of those.

not enough of them, *that for should??* ;)

but it isn't as if i'm exactly in minnesota by choice, either :(

GO BEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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My 6 and 8 year old sons....

My 6 and 8 year old sons....

are always asking "who do we want to win?" :D

That's about the time my wife chimes in......
 

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i agree with the shrimp. if you don't teach her now she may grow up to be a gambling degenerate always chasing the "dream of hitting it big" without knowing the priciples behind it. no offense.:)
 

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Be happy she only wants to learn handicapping which shows she is a smart person to begin with. But realize the fear of this poor father. When registering my son for Pop Warner Football too many years ago, this was when girls were just starting to play sports with boys, I still laugh when I think of this poor guy. He is registering his daughter to play. The coach asks what position she wants to play. The father says, "She will play anywhere but please don't make her the center."
Think about it. :D
 

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Re: Any parents have this problem?

buddy said:
I spit a mouthful of macaroni and cheese all over the monitor and keyboard.

Mac&cheese?????? You been following my plays, or what?
 

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I started taking my son to the track when he was about 10. We handicapped together, but usually I just gave him some action on my plays. As he got older, he handicapped fairly well by himself. This led to capping football, etc. I thought it was great and alot of fun having my son so excited about this stuff. However, the bad news came about the time he turned 19 or 20. Somehow he got a bookie on his own and without me monitoring his plays, he lost a few thousand. My fault entirely, but you know how macho boys that age tend to be. I bailed him out, lectured forever, etc. Unfortunately, I later found out that it happened another time or two. He was able to borrow money from "my friends" to bail himself out. He learned a lesson about chasing at an early age and at considerable cost. I am not proud of how things unfolded in that regard and certainly have to take a share of the blame for introducing him to gambling in the first place. The fact that I did so led to many sleepless nights stressing over what I had done. However, he is almost 32 now and we laugh about this all the time. He has had the same employer since he was 18 and has turned into a reasonably responsible citizen. He does a little gambling now, but not much. We still enjoy going to Vegas often.
 

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I'm guility of teaching my 5 and 7 year nephews the fine art of
"pitching" pennies up against a wall. keeps my siblings upset a little.. Poker in a few years. glta
 

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My Son who is 37 Dam 37 no wonder my body hurts Im older then I think. Anyway many years ago I thought it was neat to show him some of the math involved. He got good math grades. We talked percentages and money management. Went over the odds and juice. Kid after about 4/5 weeks. Said Dad your on the wrong side of this. How come you have not started to book some action. Kid was smart. I should have. New Corvette would be better then a Pontiac. :mad:
 

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When my son was a junior in high school he would have me call his bets in along with his buddy. Turns out his buddy was a preacher's son and was calling from the church to get his bets in .
Son now 25 and a police officer still follows the lines but doesn't bet anymore. We still laugh about him and his buddy.:D
 

djv

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boilermaker great one LOL. :D Oh boy that friend of your sons was walking on thin ice.
 
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