Thinking about leaving my wife :cursin: fukin pissting me off these days.......been with her for 7 yrs now out of which 3yrs married but lately for about a yr and half now shes been a bitech.....i have a 5yr old daughter but i refuse to live the rest of my life like this :nono:
Anyone divorced here?
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I'm not, but my sister is....she was with a her ex for about 8 years/ 3 of which they were married.
She seems very happy she made the choice, but she doesnt have any children.
Hope it all works out for ya.....
She seems very happy she made the choice, but she doesnt have any children.
Hope it all works out for ya.....
yea thats the only thing that has kept me around is my daughter otherwise i would have been out a while back
Bet you I know who gets the 1st phone call
Bet you I know who gets the 1st phone call
blast from the past....
http://www.madjacksports.com/forum/showthread.php?t=195435
Bet you I know who gets the 1st phone call
blast from the past....
http://www.madjacksports.com/forum/showthread.php?t=195435
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Ask yourself a few ?'s first.
1. Why did you marry her?
2. Why are you still married?
3. Why do you want a divorce?
4. How much do you contribute to the situation?
5. Are you prepared for the financial ramifications?
When you say she has turned into a B, are you provoking it? Take a long hard look at yourself and your actions. If you can truly say you are not contributing to the bulk of it; then yes it may be time to move on.
She would probably get custody of your daughter. There is 5-6 hundred a month or more you will have to pay the rest of your life. You may not get to see her every day or even every week. Keep that in mind if you are just tired of being nagged.
Is she just as unhappy as you? Have you both ever sat down and talked about what is eating at you heart to heart? You both need to be brutally honest with each other and yourselves. I dont' necessarily think marriage counseling is the answer either, unless you two cannot communicate in a civil manner when airing things out.
Have you two become strangers in the night? Do you two ever do things together anymore? Do you feel that your relationship with each other is worth saving and working at and not only for the sake of your daughter? If not, best to cut ties now so she does not have to go through the true ugliness that could erupt if your situation lingers on and potentially gets worse.
I wish you both the best. I am divorced and remarried. My first marriage was just not meant to be from the get go. I think my second ex-wife is ok for now. :mj07:
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Ask yourself a few ?'s first.
1. Why did you marry her?
2. Why are you still married?
3. Why do you want a divorce?
4. How much do you contribute to the situation?
5. Are you prepared for the financial ramifications?
When you say she has turned into a B, are you provoking it? Take a long hard look at yourself and your actions. If you can truly say you are not contributing to the bulk of it; then yes it may be time to move on.
She would probably get custody of your daughter. There is 5-6 hundred a month or more you will have to pay the rest of your life. You may not get to see her every day or even every week. Keep that in mind if you are just tired of being nagged.
Is she just as unhappy as you? Have you both ever sat down and talked about what is eating at you heart to heart? You both need to be brutally honest with each other and yourselves. I dont' necessarily think marriage counseling is the answer either, unless you two cannot communicate in a civil manner when airing things out.
Have you two become strangers in the night? Do you two ever do things together anymore? Do you feel that your relationship with each other is worth saving and working at and not only for the sake of your daughter? If not, best to cut ties now so she does not have to go through the true ugliness that could erupt if your situation lingers on and potentially gets worse.
I wish you both the best. I am divorced and remarried. My first marriage was just not meant to be from the get go. I think my second ex-wife is ok for now. :mj07:
all i can say if you are not happy dont wait too long. also there is an old saying out there "its cheaper to keep her"
may want to think about that. if i had a choice i would rather be single again. dont get me wrong my wife is pretty much cool but sometime we just dont see eye to eye
gl
may want to think about that. if i had a choice i would rather be single again. dont get me wrong my wife is pretty much cool but sometime we just dont see eye to eye
gl
If you are concerned about your daughter.....remember this:
"Better for the child to be from a broken home then live in an unhappy one."
Trust me, from experiance, the crap of "staying for the sake of the child" is garbage. Better for the child if both parents are happy. Kids have a funny way of blaming themselves if mom and dad are not happy.
Best of luck to ya......and besides, life is too short to be upset all the time:SIB
"Better for the child to be from a broken home then live in an unhappy one."
Trust me, from experiance, the crap of "staying for the sake of the child" is garbage. Better for the child if both parents are happy. Kids have a funny way of blaming themselves if mom and dad are not happy.
Best of luck to ya......and besides, life is too short to be upset all the time:SIB
I could not possibly agree more with kickserv's post. I am twice divorced, have a child from each, remarried now, happily, for 8 years. If both parents are somewhat sensible and do not use the children in the divorce and afterwards, then the kids are usually better off.
Not knowing the situation at your home, it's impossible to know what is worth it or not. I have done the leaving, and been told to go. I was happy doing the leaving, and sad to be told to go. Usually, I find that both people are not trying hard enough, and money troubles are often the heart of the issue.
My wife is a family law attorney...I have heard of just about everything. And if I've learned anything, it's that there are probably a lot of things to consider in judging, that most people will never know about the people and situation you are judging.
Kneejerk response - if both parties are really wanting to work hard to make things better, it's probably worth trying it. If you already have, or one doesn't want to, then probably best to move on. The kids have a tough time watching the garbage that goes on with bickering/apart parents at home, IMO, and when they only see one at a time, and the time is far more special and individual, it can really be a good thing. Although, it can be very scary.
Tough. Sorry you are going through this. Have been there, too. Best of luck to all of you.
Not knowing the situation at your home, it's impossible to know what is worth it or not. I have done the leaving, and been told to go. I was happy doing the leaving, and sad to be told to go. Usually, I find that both people are not trying hard enough, and money troubles are often the heart of the issue.
My wife is a family law attorney...I have heard of just about everything. And if I've learned anything, it's that there are probably a lot of things to consider in judging, that most people will never know about the people and situation you are judging.
Kneejerk response - if both parties are really wanting to work hard to make things better, it's probably worth trying it. If you already have, or one doesn't want to, then probably best to move on. The kids have a tough time watching the garbage that goes on with bickering/apart parents at home, IMO, and when they only see one at a time, and the time is far more special and individual, it can really be a good thing. Although, it can be very scary.
Tough. Sorry you are going through this. Have been there, too. Best of luck to all of you.
Anybody catch "War of The Roses"
Danny DeVito's character had a different take on things. (he was still 4ft tall though)
Danny DeVito's character had a different take on things. (he was still 4ft tall though)
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