anybody tried to buy a new mattrress set lately,last time I bought was in 1996 and now I am moving and want to get new mattress,I am having trouble deciding,every brand says they are the best and they are all on sale all the time,don't like the feel of a tempurpedic or the price,want a really soft bed but the really soft are really expensive,tired to going to these discount outlets to try to find a deal,trust me they are a waste of time,any suggestions