Do all women play mind games?
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31 year anniversary last weekend....not always been a bed of roses, but in retrospect, very tolerable.
This. We occasionally get on each other nerves big time, but we have lasted 18 years because neither of us plays any games. Had a lot of girlfriends before meeting my wife and the ones that played games didn't last too long. Life is too fucking short for that kind of bullshit.
headed to the strip club would prompt a responseopcorn2
Screw a FB page:0008
She does not need to text, she knows what is going on with your life 24-7. A single guy with FB is reeking of desperation. Seriously? :mj07:
I know this advice will fall on deaf ears.....
How about living your life unassuming, get to know the person your interested in for what she offers as a person. Your living your life playing games to get back at your ex wife. Stop playing your own games and the women you connect with will be real, genuine and have character... Or You can keep acting like a college co-ed.your choice Hedge. What's that country song? Looking for love in all the wrong places:0008
why did this post suddenly go to shouting at the top of your lungs?
and why dont you just pass her a note during 6th period math class asking if she likes you and to circle yes or no? :shrug:
Relax, Hedge. You got a fun night out with a new girl, and possibly some action. If she likes you, then she'll be in touch. If not, call a new one next week. Next time, try to avoid sending a string of texts over the course of 48 hrs after you've spent the night together. Good grief, man....let this chick breathe:toast:
this is the third time I have gone out with her :shrug: so not new, both have been busy since the end of the year with kids, etc...it is just weird to not get a response when we had a good time and everything was fine By the way she did not spend the night :shrug: oh well, I am giving it a week and then on to the next one :toast:
she is someone from my past although we were just classmates, never dated...she found me on facebook I have had a facebook page since the beginning of 2009, I post pics of my kids for my family to see. I understand what your saying, me unassuming and quiet is not going to happen
I simply hate the dating scene especially at my age, it was fun in college but now it sucks. I am going to keep looking and maybe I will find a new Mrs. hedgie one day. When your married for 12 years and now back as a free agent its not easy. I might come across on here as a crazy man or what have you, that is all for show, I am just a down to earth guy... I appreciate all the advise :toast:
I am killing the hedgehog persona and from now on its going to be the real me on here. :0008
I am killing the hedgehog persona and from now on its going to be the real me on here. :0008
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It is quite simple - no, all woman do not play games. If you don't want to play games with one, then don't! Honestly, that's like middle school shit, and if they aren't over that yet, then they are probably not long-term relationship material...if that is what you are looking for.
yes, that is what I am looking for...I had my fun right after getting divorced and now its time to find a long term relationship, at least long term possibilities :shrug: Thanks for your input.
On a very serious note I think you'll find that girls that play games have several options and you're probably not option A. I'm not being a dick just trying to be honest. They may want to do something with you if option A and maybe B aren't available. I think once you're option A with a girl they won't be playing games with you because you're their first option every time.
And Option A or B doesn't have to be another guy, it might be their friends and that's what most important to them at the time.
And Option A or B doesn't have to be another guy, it might be their friends and that's what most important to them at the time.
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hedgy,
I think you need to be honest with these women. Tell them your true feelings and let them know that you have been discussing this situation with your friends on www.madjacksports.com and that we all think you deserve a chance.
JMHO
I think you need to be honest with these women. Tell them your true feelings and let them know that you have been discussing this situation with your friends on www.madjacksports.com and that we all think you deserve a chance.
JMHO
That is good advise :toast: and the truth
Thanks again...I am going to be myself and see what happens, no reason to worry...If its meant to be then it will be.
First of all, don't go into the future thinking you need some perfect kind of relationship. Don't label all women. Don't make jokes about them, don't think they all have an agenda, don't live your life based on a cumulative MadJack's guys advice thread.
Take a breath, don't look for shit. Just be what you are, be honest with yourself and those you spend time with. Don't presume you know what these other women are about - it's not fair to them or to you.
People are people. Some women play games, some men play games. Some play different games at different times. Most people are selfish and are looking out for themselves. And that is understandable.
Quit overthinking everything. Just be in the moment, and quit trying to force shit to happen. Shit happens on its own. Enjoy being single, embrace being a father, and appreciate the things you have in your current situation. Something good will happen if your mind and heart are in the right place. It may not happen today, but it will happen.
Good luck to you. Seriously. End of essay... :SIB
Take a breath, don't look for shit. Just be what you are, be honest with yourself and those you spend time with. Don't presume you know what these other women are about - it's not fair to them or to you.
People are people. Some women play games, some men play games. Some play different games at different times. Most people are selfish and are looking out for themselves. And that is understandable.
Quit overthinking everything. Just be in the moment, and quit trying to force shit to happen. Shit happens on its own. Enjoy being single, embrace being a father, and appreciate the things you have in your current situation. Something good will happen if your mind and heart are in the right place. It may not happen today, but it will happen.
Good luck to you. Seriously. End of essay... :SIB
