sounds good everyone
Well I had to work for a few hours in the morning............. I guess I didn't choose such a great day to do so:thinking: or maybe I did. I am a part time process server for the law firm I currently work for, so basically the 3 people I served on Valentines Day probably thought I was the florist delivering flowers or something

Much to there surprise when I asked does Mr.or Mrs. so and so live here and they replied YES I'm her/him or yes she/he does.............
SLAM BAM and I had to hand them there complaint ....................Which indicates they are being sued for whatever reason.............
came home , "HAD TO" watch some hoops for they were on every TV in my house. LOL
Then I proceeded to take out what I "thought" I was cooking for dinner , when much to my surprise 2 out of my 3 teenagers confessed that my traditional heart shaped meat loaf smoothered with RED ketchup X O on top with bacon, the pink mashed potatoes , salad with red vinegarette dressing , red kool aid and of course red jello with pink cool whip WAS DISGUSTING!!!!!!!!!!!!! and they laughed

They confessed that they just ate it because they didn't want to hurt my feelings....................

and then they all let me know they had plans, even my 11 year old wouldn't be home anyway!!! she went to a V-day dance.............
My husband asked me a few times what I wanted for V-day , but honestly there isn't anything in this world I really WANT,other than a new kitchen LOL I think flowers are a waste of $$$$ personally don't care for roses + they are bad luck in my house,I haven't had my eye on any new jewelry..................other than a new kitchen LOL like I said nothing I want!
My point to the story is , the joys of small children and the pleasure I have gotten over the years making them happy is almost gone . The "freshness" (i don't think that was the word I was looking for oh well) of new love fades away with time.........and you each become like the wallpaper on the wall , if you know what I mean LOL?????Don't get me wrong,Raymond is my best friend in the whole world so just hanging out with out kids IS GREAT FOR US!!!!!!!!!!!
but I guess my day was a little sad because I realized on V-day that I am at a new plato in my life and aceptance really sucks!!!!!!!!!
My kids are all growing up and hopefully will be off at college in a few years, they have boyfriends and girlfriends of there own now and the more practical "getting older" side of me decided that waiting in line for 2 hours at a restaurant for dinner is a pain in the azz...........so lets just stay home...........
WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON??????
its like one day you are buying barbie/power ranger V-day cards with lolli pops and sending them off to school to exchange with there friends and then befor you know it your crossing your fingers and praying that they aren't getting TOO up close and personal with there girl/boyfriends on Valentines day..............
I don't know how to end my post ???? guess I'll have to upgrade my V-day dinner for the kids to filet minon and lobster tail to keep them home with me, and disable the TV's in my house for an hour or 2 after they go out LOL
glad everyone had a good one!!!!!!!!!!