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Ok, Pharoah, gotcha. Keep trying, you'll find someone who is worthy. Perhaps you are just more mature than most your age. As women get older and mature, they WILL be looking for someone like you. It's the same thing as guys being all over some raving lunatic, no-brained hottie, while ignoring the decent, next-door type. There really are people of all types, and someone for everyone, you just have to find your niche.
Kelly
Have you seen my next door neighbor???? My God she has a face like a mud fence. I mean yeah, she is older and more mature but I don't want pluck the hairs off her chin for fun on a Friday night either. Every older woman wants a 20-something year old anymore, its crazy. Personally, I don't really have an iron in this fire as I am generally happy with my current situation, which is single. Now that is not to say that I don't pay attention to my surroundings and that I don't chase women because we all know that isn't true. Hell I am chasing you over the internet right now(you have to say right now like the guy from the salon in that Propecia commercial or whatever, the one that thickens your hair supposedly, don't know I have a full head of hair), but I know there is a big difference in being lonely and being alone. If my options are being alone, or taking on the land manatee next door, then it's welcome to lonely town, population me.
 

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tpaine, at my age I'd give my left nut to be in your
predicament :mj07:

What's the old saying, " If I knew then what I
know now " :00hour

You are going to laugh your ass off about 10 years
from now when you think back about how poor
little you went on a gambling site crying about
relationships and the piss poor state of the female
population. Not trying to bust your balls t but
you will find out sooner or later how petty your
current situation is. My advice to you is get over
it ASAP and move on to life in the fast lane, the
fuse is burning. These are your best years and you
are wasting time.
 

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Yikes! I didn't mean like to peek like i REALLY liked to peek. I just didn't know what was in that forum that you guys were drooling over...so I looked.

You can see the drooling?:scared Can you see what Vinny is doing while he is posting all of that stuff.:00hour
 

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These are your best years and you are wasting time.

Nice, Kramer. Yours post is one of the better expressions of the concept of carpe diem that I've ever read. Seize the day. Its always good advice, and it applies in almost every situation in life.

My advice? I don't know, but as a practical matter, you might be better off dating someone you already know and respect, or at least get along with. These can be friends, acquaintances or most likely co-workers. Did you ever notice that although some of these women might not have been your type or sexually attractive to you initially, the more you knew them the more attractive they seemed?

It used to be bad practice to date co-workers, but that advice has started to give way in the face of modern realities of life. Just make it clear that you are friends to start, and friends you will be no matter what happens.
 

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Kelly
Have you seen my next door neighbor???? My God she has a face like a mud fence. I mean yeah, she is older and more mature but I don't want pluck the hairs off her chin for fun on a Friday night either. Every older woman wants a 20-something year old anymore, its crazy. Personally, I don't really have an iron in this fire as I am generally happy with my current situation, which is single. Now that is not to say that I don't pay attention to my surroundings and that I don't chase women because we all know that isn't true. Hell I am chasing you over the internet right now(you have to say right now like the guy from the salon in that Propecia commercial or whatever, the one that thickens your hair supposedly, don't know I have a full head of hair), but I know there is a big difference in being lonely and being alone. If my options are being alone, or taking on the land manatee next door, then it's welcome to lonely town, population me.
Cris, I don't know that I've seen YOUR next door neighbor, but I've seen several similarly fated male versions. I agree, being single and being lonely are two different things. The single life is good, you can come and go and do whatever the hell you please. I think most people would prefer to settle down at some point, but only if you find that truly compatible mate. And yes, those 20 year olds do still carry a certain appeal, I must admit.
 

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Cris, I don't know that I've seen YOUR next door neighbor, but I've seen several similarly fated male versions. I agree, being single and being lonely are two different things. The single life is good, you can come and go and do whatever the hell you please. I think most people would prefer to settle down at some point, but only if you find that truly compatible mate. And yes, those 20 year olds do still carry a certain appeal, I must admit.


Agree with everything but the last part. The reason being is, I own my own stuff and don't live with my mom so I find it difficult to understand why a 30 something would want a 20 something unless it is for purely physical reasons. Even then, the thought processes are entirely skewed because any 30-40 year old man will get on top and jump around like an inexperienced 20 year old if you ask them. Hell I will even go so far as to put my ball cap back on AFTER I take off my shirt, act like I am still in high school and watch Yo Momma
on MTV if that is what girls want. I always thought women looked for strength of character, and security, and knowing how to treat a lady other than calling her your ho, but hey thats just me. Hope all is well Kelly and stay away from the young-uns.........LOL

Hope this helps,
FDC
 

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I feel as though now a days, the females are just mostly whores,golddiggers or just overall shitty individuals. Now I am sure this isnt the case for all of them, but as our MTV unmannered/superficial generation gets older thats all I'm seeing out there.
Geez, I don't know. LMAO at bragging about kegger pickups on one hand, but complaining about whores on the other.

Kramer is right - stop whining.
 

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Geez, I don't know. LMAO at bragging about kegger pickups on one hand, but complaining about whores on the other.

Kramer is right - stop whining.



Guess I can't win here... These hookups were with the only 2 actual girlfriends I've had in my life and occured well into our relationship. I don't even care about looking for females anymore, Ill focus on my hockey and my life and still having a good time, if I happen to come across one thats great, so be it, if not i'll just continue to have fun. I guess since Im complaining about the female population turning to garbage, im not allowed to post about the weirdest place I've had sex, makes alot of sense.
 

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1st - nobody's "not allowed" to post anything. Don't ever get that idea. When you post, people make comments. That's the idea of a forum.

2nd - I'm sorry. I assumed the kegger hookups were one night stands, not existing relationships. My mistake - no insult was intended anyway.

3rd - I actually kind of agree with you about women being difficult - the pretty American ones anyway. They are raised to expect everything. Either go for the lesser looking ones or look into foreigners if you get too frustrated.
 

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Just shooting it straight...

Your opinion of what most girls/women are like is your first mistake. Just because you have had one bad relationship does not make them all bad and it will probably not be your last. It is just like racism, I love people that stereotype a total race or group of people without getting to know any of them. I give my friends grief every time I hear someone say "I hate ....". I say do you know them or have you met them?
How can you hate them? If you have that opinion of women, then maybe they have that opinion of you. Just play it cool, lay back and see what comes your direction. Fate plays its hand in mysterious ways and there is no need to force it. Tomorrow is a new day and being a young dude, live life in the half full end of the glass!

tpaine - I think this is the best advice of the thread. Try not to make generalizations about all women...

It would be better to say that most people in America are garbage (if you are going to take this viewpoint), as I would venture to guess that there are just as many "man-whores" (no, you are not pimps and players) and men who like money as well. However, it is better to remain optimistic and see the good in life rather than the bad.

My parents met at Oregon Caves park where they were both working one summer. Working at some sort of national park or wilderness school or volunteering with a humane society or something could be a good place to meet someone who is down-to-earth and cares about things beyond getting wasted and fcking. Ever considered studying abroad? You usually get to meet some well-rounded Americans on those trips as well as lots of hot cool foreigners (and for some reason they usually dig our lame accents). Just a couple thoughts...

Good luck.
 

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Agree with everything but the last part. The reason being is, I own my own stuff and don't live with my mom so I find it difficult to understand why a 30 something would want a 20 something unless it is for purely physical reasons. Even then, the thought processes are entirely skewed because any 30-40 year old man will get on top and jump around like an inexperienced 20 year old if you ask them. Hell I will even go so far as to put my ball cap back on AFTER I take off my shirt, act like I am still in high school and watch Yo Momma
on MTV if that is what girls want. I always thought women looked for strength of character, and security, and knowing how to treat a lady other than calling her your ho, but hey thats just me. Hope all is well Kelly and stay away from the young-uns.........LOL

Hope this helps,
FDC
Naw, I just admire their physique - that's it.
 

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Naw, I just admire their physique - that's it.

Very nice, now thats the kind of superficiality we were looking for.......atta girl. Thats all I do too with the twenty year old women is admire their physique.........well that and hoot at them and make gestures and stuff.... Other than that I leave the twenty year olds alone, until they have another birthday at least.....:00hour
 
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