Cris, I don't know that I've seen YOUR next door neighbor, but I've seen several similarly fated male versions. I agree, being single and being lonely are two different things. The single life is good, you can come and go and do whatever the hell you please. I think most people would prefer to settle down at some point, but only if you find that truly compatible mate. And yes, those 20 year olds do still carry a certain appeal, I must admit.
Agree with everything but the last part. The reason being is, I own my own stuff and don't live with my mom so I find it difficult to understand why a 30 something would want a 20 something unless it is for purely physical reasons. Even then, the thought processes are entirely skewed because any 30-40 year old man will get on top and jump around like an inexperienced 20 year old if you ask them. Hell I will even go so far as to put my ball cap back on AFTER I take off my shirt, act like I am still in high school and watch Yo Momma
on MTV if that is what girls want. I always thought women looked for strength of character, and security, and knowing how to treat a lady other than calling her your ho, but hey thats just me. Hope all is well Kelly and stay away from the young-uns.........LOL
Hope this helps,
FDC