Hug your kids, spouse, and loved ones
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My best to you. I have no idea what to expect, but I really believe they would want us to remember all the good times and not dwell on their passing. I guess that is the mindset I am going with.:shrug:
Same here...Will definetely remember the good times.
Wifey just told me that my mom bought my daughters B'day present and also xmas present before she passed away. She was thinking ahead that if she wasnt here during xmas that she wanted all the grandkids to have there presents for xmas. I wanted to cry when wifey told me that. 7 grandkids in all and shes got them there xmas present from her. Outstanding person..
Ageecee,
We've never interacted I don't think, but we have been posting on several, to many, sports forums like this together for a long, long time.
My deepest condolences.
FTR- I agree with Big Daddys way of looking at things, and also think it's great what your mom did with the presents and I can totally relate as that's how I would see my mom thinking about things, taking care of things, etc, at that point.
Take care.
We've never interacted I don't think, but we have been posting on several, to many, sports forums like this together for a long, long time.
My deepest condolences.
FTR- I agree with Big Daddys way of looking at things, and also think it's great what your mom did with the presents and I can totally relate as that's how I would see my mom thinking about things, taking care of things, etc, at that point.
Take care.
ageecee,
I remember the waves of emotion...like it was yesterday...both mom dad and one sibling gone now and it is really tough..but they are as much a part of me now as they ever were...
God Bless you and yours!
bear
I remember the waves of emotion...like it was yesterday...both mom dad and one sibling gone now and it is really tough..but they are as much a part of me now as they ever were...
God Bless you and yours!
bear
well guys, ireally need some help here. I was just told by the doctor that if I want her to pass, I will have to go tell her. He said if I told her, she would go ahead and die. I am so torn. I so do not want to lose my mother, hell she is still so young, but then again, i dont want to see her in any more pain. The cancer has spread all over, and has lesions bleeding and has to be wrapped every few hours. I mean what do you do? I think i would feel horrid if i told her/them i wanted to her die, but am just torn-what would you do? what is the right thing to do?
UTL
Show that great love that you have...get close...comfort your Mom and assure her that she has done an outstanding job......... and that it is OK to go now.....been there and its not easy
Best to you UTL and family!
bear
Show that great love that you have...get close...comfort your Mom and assure her that she has done an outstanding job......... and that it is OK to go now.....been there and its not easy
Best to you UTL and family!
bear
Damn Ut you going to make me cry. Bear is right he couldnt of said it any better. Tell her you love her, tell her she was an outstanding mom and tell her its time to go. Thats exactly what we told my mom. I really feel your pain UT my prayers are with you and your mom.
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Kosar,
Yes you are right me and you have been posting all over the net for years now, but this is the place where i post now as you can tell by the # of posts i have. We have never intereacted but me and you and everyone here i feel are my friends. Thanks for your prayers and best of luck to you..
well i did it. hardest thing ive ever had to do. I am speechless, i feel im in a dream and just want to wake up. 52 years old and gone. left myself, my brothers 22 and 19, father 56. it feels as if your heart was ripped out. 
well i did it. hardest thing ive ever had to do. I am speechless, i feel im in a dream and just want to wake up. 52 years old and gone. left myself, my brothers 22 and 19, father 56. it feels as if your heart was ripped out.
Very sorry, man. I agree with the others that this is what you incredibly sadly had to do. My deepest condolences.
well i did it. hardest thing ive ever had to do. I am speechless, i feel im in a dream and just want to wake up. 52 years old and gone. left myself, my brothers 22 and 19, father 56. it feels as if your heart was ripped out.
UT,
Absolutely know what you going thru. Also felt like it was a dream. My heart pours out to you and your family. Anything we can do let us know.
