I am in a DEBACLE..
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I think she is just yanking your chian--she knows you care about the kid so she is using him to try and get back with you??
I agree that you should stay away. And since no one's brought it up, I'll play devil's advocate here and ask how do you even know for sure the kid was really asking about you? Is there any chance she may be using that to reel you in? I wouldn't trust her.
edit: looks like hawkeye beat me to it.
edit: looks like hawkeye beat me to it.
For 12 years she was with 3 men by BP's account. BP, an older man which could have been mid 30s to a mid twenties guy, and her husband. No accounting for the baby's daddy... so four men in the span of 15 years...
That's hardly bouncing between men and what's to say she left BP for another man? That could have just been a rebound in a time of need How long has she been married?
It's off point I guess.
Best of luck with whatever you decide to do. But accepting the come ons of a married woman is playing with fire. :0corn
That's all I'm saying...
First, I could write a story here that would make all of you shit and I still might. If Agent is around, he knows the details, and certainly could say my life now is a book or a Jerry Springer episode from losing my wife and now getting caught in something similar to your situation BP without the kid.
Second, I understand where you are at with this. A few of you have wrote some things that I have re-read many times, because that is the advice I am trying to live by now. It is easier said than done....
My advice, steer clear the best way possible. I too have hit the alcohol hard over the last 17 months, and that is not the answer. You are in a tough spot, and by knowing what is going on will only hurt you even more, especially with her being married. It's a game, and one that you CAN'T win. Do you bet knowing you have a loser already? This can't go anywhere....but the temptation is great, and an evil one that will only bury you in the end.
Stay strong my friend.
jr11
Second, I understand where you are at with this. A few of you have wrote some things that I have re-read many times, because that is the advice I am trying to live by now. It is easier said than done....
My advice, steer clear the best way possible. I too have hit the alcohol hard over the last 17 months, and that is not the answer. You are in a tough spot, and by knowing what is going on will only hurt you even more, especially with her being married. It's a game, and one that you CAN'T win. Do you bet knowing you have a loser already? This can't go anywhere....but the temptation is great, and an evil one that will only bury you in the end.
Stay strong my friend.
jr11
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Here's a long list of advice given out on a similar topic
http://madjacksports.com/forum/showthread.php?t=371072
http://madjacksports.com/forum/showthread.php?t=371072
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we really should have a forum that addresses our "getting in touch" with our feminine side...
you know,,nurturing..scented candles...bath salts...discussing the disagreement you had with your weight loss coach...
and with it being smurph`s birthday,,what better time could there be?...
/metro g.w...
you know,,nurturing..scented candles...bath salts...discussing the disagreement you had with your weight loss coach...
and with it being smurph`s birthday,,what better time could there be?...
/metro g.w...
I agree, hell I know everybody would participate. Their may be a few that contribute a little bit more than others though.
lol:142smilie :mj07: :142smilie
kneifl
Jon, speak for yourself..... I'm not into all that touchy-feely girly stuff although scented candles do help with the periodic fried food funk.
So do we have any update of episode 30 of the MJ-Dr. Phil show?
I think we need pictures of this woman as well. Only if she is Mojo-Forum material though.
BDP I hope you are taking the advice here. This is nothing but trouble. Many here have been giving solid advice with the same result. Leave this woman alone. Delete your account, ignore her or whatever it takes but stay away.
You will regret this.
There are alot better women out there. Not all are like this. Your going to be used is all.
I am willing to bet that she uses the I am looking for a good man and can't never find one excuse. It sounds to me like she is looking for few good men, not just one.
If being alone is the main issue, check out the thread IE2002 has. Worlds first sex robot. For 9,000 bucks you can get a woman who talks football and never says no and is not currently married. I don't think batteries are included though.
Good luck though.
I think we need pictures of this woman as well. Only if she is Mojo-Forum material though.
BDP I hope you are taking the advice here. This is nothing but trouble. Many here have been giving solid advice with the same result. Leave this woman alone. Delete your account, ignore her or whatever it takes but stay away.
You will regret this.
There are alot better women out there. Not all are like this. Your going to be used is all.
I am willing to bet that she uses the I am looking for a good man and can't never find one excuse. It sounds to me like she is looking for few good men, not just one.
If being alone is the main issue, check out the thread IE2002 has. Worlds first sex robot. For 9,000 bucks you can get a woman who talks football and never says no and is not currently married. I don't think batteries are included though.
Good luck though.
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I know. Totally, right? Sounds like the woman is a freak, which means for sure some upsides to such a decision.
Purple has already proven to be a pretty heavy drinker. This is a great combination IMO. He always has the refuge of the bottle to get through the rough patches.
Let me clear some of this up.. Was ice fishing all day..
#1. She is not the reason why I am in the debacle.. I have no interest in her. I mean she is still attractive but I could never go back to that. I could never trust her and I wouldn't want to piss off some guy.. My doctor told me ten years ago, you can live long if you don't overdrink. overuse tobacoo, and don't screw other men's women... My debacle was about seeing the kid. I mean holy shit.. Seeing his pictures on FB and seeing how he has grown kind of hit me in the guts..
#2.. I don't drink because of this.. I drink because I live in Wisconsin..
#3. The Cowboys do scare the living shit out of me especially the line play on both sides of the ball. Favre needs time and if he gets it I think we win.. Won't be betting on this game. A loss will be hard enough..
#4. I am going to stay clear away from this woman. I can't torture myself and possibly torture that kid anymore. If he wants to contact me later in life,, he will..
All this was so fresh starting this weekend and maybe for a minute I was caught off guard but I have come to my senses... Seeing his pictures are enough for me but now I have to tell her to leave this and me alone... That time has passed and she was the one who chose this fate.. Its just kind of great that she is the one who is in regrets now.. Besides now whe is 34 and bit too old for me.:142smilie
The sad thing is that she is going to leave her husband and she is going to displace this kid again and diplace her youngest kid. Some bitches never learn.
#1. She is not the reason why I am in the debacle.. I have no interest in her. I mean she is still attractive but I could never go back to that. I could never trust her and I wouldn't want to piss off some guy.. My doctor told me ten years ago, you can live long if you don't overdrink. overuse tobacoo, and don't screw other men's women... My debacle was about seeing the kid. I mean holy shit.. Seeing his pictures on FB and seeing how he has grown kind of hit me in the guts..
#2.. I don't drink because of this.. I drink because I live in Wisconsin..
#3. The Cowboys do scare the living shit out of me especially the line play on both sides of the ball. Favre needs time and if he gets it I think we win.. Won't be betting on this game. A loss will be hard enough..
#4. I am going to stay clear away from this woman. I can't torture myself and possibly torture that kid anymore. If he wants to contact me later in life,, he will..
All this was so fresh starting this weekend and maybe for a minute I was caught off guard but I have come to my senses... Seeing his pictures are enough for me but now I have to tell her to leave this and me alone... That time has passed and she was the one who chose this fate.. Its just kind of great that she is the one who is in regrets now.. Besides now whe is 34 and bit too old for me.:142smilie
The sad thing is that she is going to leave her husband and she is going to displace this kid again and diplace her youngest kid. Some bitches never learn.
