Last night

[fatdaddycool]

I went to happy hour with a guy that is resigning from my work place. Met a girl and danced a little, bought her a drink, etc...,etc,... things worked out. Now I am sitting at the computer after having just woke up at about 8:23 in the a.m. There is a completely burnt out pizza in the oven (Tombstone) and pictures of this girl and a man. I wake her up. She jumps up with a start and asks what time it is. I tell her and she starts scrambling around swearing, picking up clothes, shoes brushing her hair yada yada yada. She is fricking MARRIED. What the hell is that. did she honestly think that it wouldn't matter to me? As she is walking out she tell me "what do you care you got what you wanted" But that isn't the point. I will feel like shit now. Some poor bastid is sitting at home waiting on this. Unreal.

 

[hellah10]

:scared :scared :scared :scared :scared

 

[Captain Crunch]

FDC, it is nice to know there are other people out their with a conscious. I have had the oppurtunity to tag married woman before and couldn't pull the trigger. I was on the receiving end of the home wrecking situation and vowed to never put someone through the same crap that I had experienced whether I knew them or not. She must be a completely selfish individual to do what she did. I'd like to hear what she told her husband when she got home. Unfortunately for that "poor bastid", I would bet that this isn't the first time she has pulled this stunt. If she hadn't gotten her oats sewn yet, why did she get married in the first place? Some people never cease to amaze me. Good Luck

 

[fatdaddycool]

Crunch, hellah,
couldn't and didnt say it better myself. I cannot believe, and I know that women oare not the only guilty parties, that someone could do that to another individual. I like all of us have had my heart broken before also, and there is no way to describe the agony that that situation puts you through. I think that men or women that cheat or date cheaters are despicable and never ever have I purposely dated or been with a married women.....I asked her several times last night who was watching her child and where the father was. I am disgusted.

 

[TIME TO MAKE $$$]

CRIS,

you have mail.....

 

[yyz]

I was wondering where in the hell she was!!!!!!!

Hey, lets' face it, if you banged some chick you picked up in a bar, don't cloud the evening with "moral righteousness". She was right......."You got what you wanted."

I highly doubt you were going to pick out engagement rings this afternoon, so why the sad song? Are you going to tell us that you actually had "feelings" for her? That this could have blossomed?

Two things:

You don't "date" a girl who fuks you without knowing you, and trust me.......she wasn't "looking for Mr Right", either. (More like, Mr Right Now!)

You can feel bad that some guy is sitting home wondering where his old lady was, but if you really wanted to know the scoop, you could have waited until you knew her better.

Chalk this up as a "bad beat", and learn from it. In other words........Don't do the same thing tonight, with a different gal.

 

[TIME TO MAKE $$$]

at least you didn't get beads coming out of your ass!

 

[BahamaMama]

only goes to prove that the saying *men are pigs* applies to women also!!!

yyz, i understand what you are saying also...yup, he got what he wanted, but he DIDN'T necessarily want it with someone married. FDC was feeling more sorry for HIM than HER.

 

[TIME TO MAKE $$$]

FDC,

in touch with his inner feelings?

what is this world coming to?

:shrug:

 

[Bluemound Freak]

Cris, if the truth be known he was prolly out fuhkin somebody himself! I mean if it was a meaningful marriage he and she would have been out together!

I am only dating my girl and I would be with her if she was out!

Think you would be doing this poor guy a favor, he needs to know just what kind of hooker he is married to!:shrug: I know that if my girl was out running around getting humped like a whale I would want to know.........yes it would hurt at first but life is not meant to be pain free! Drop Dime on the heartless Beeeeaaatch!

 

[Blazer]

Was she wearing a ring?

If she isn't wearing a ring, and you noticed she wasn't. She lied to you. Like someone impersonating on officer by wearing a badge, she was impersonating a single woman by not wearing a ring.

It's that simple. You are in the clear. She is to blame.

 

[djv]

When on the dance floor before heading in deeper. I would always find away to ask are you seeing anyone steady at this time. Hopefully your not married. Used to make light of it with. Seems every chick is hooked up these days or hitched up. At least that way you asked. What happens from that point on means nothing on you if the chick lies.

 

[fatdaddycool]

Thanks for the replies. The point being, regardless fo what yyz says, is that it made me feel like crap afterwards. I was not saying that I wasn't in it for my own pleasure, because obviously that would not be true. What I am saying is that the act of cheating is hurtful, extremely hurtful to all involved. There is way too much acceptance of it in todays society and its sad.

 

[cooz3]

fattdaddy...i understand what your saying but this clearly was not your fault....unless something like this has happened to you its difficult for people to realize or rather empathize with the poor FUK sitting around clueless as his or her spouse is out there screwing other people...not saying i havenet been tempted as a young single guy...but i have been on the other end of thinking everything is cool with a chick only to find out later that wasnt the case....now im ruthless...i dont get involved with girls in anything serious and im as blunt as can be about it...thus there are no expectations and no hard feelings...back to this subject however ...again i cant stress enough that this simply was not your fault bro...she knew what she was doing and wasnt up front with you about the situation....if i was her husband and found out..i would be bullshit at her and you...but after finding out what the situation was ...i simply could not blame you at all...dont worry about it....your guilt alone shows that you had no intent of screwing around with someones wife....

cooz