My only childs 21st b-day surprise

[ctownguy]

I feel so happy for you fat. As the father of 2 beautiful daughters I know exactly the feeling you are talking about.

Both my girls have given me that feeling in so many ways. It is a real blessing for my wife and I to sit back and know that we have to responsible and great kids out there in the world.

And as you mentioned we are not sure exactly what we did right except give them lots of love and discipline while growing up. Sometimes the discipline over shadowed everything, but the love was alwasy there.

Congrats on having such a great and thoughtful daughter. :clap: :clap:

 

[ctownguy]

Just had my wife read your story and she couldn't hold back the tears.

She just said to tell you that the world could use more Dad's and parents like you, because you certainly raised an exceptional young lady.

Bravo Fat :clap:

 

[layinwood]

I have to say that I had some tears as well. My little girl is only 3 so I can only dream of what you felt like. Congrats on raising such thoughtful young lady.

 

[AR182]

fdc,

a really great story...it really moved me.

you did a tremendous job raising your daughter..not an easy fear as a single parent....

but as they say...the apple doesn't fall far from the tree......i'm sure her father is a great guy also....

happy holidays to you & yours.....

 

[Sportsaholic]

Thanks for making me tear up at work :cursin: ..........You couldnt have received a better "I love you" from your daughter, great job!

 

[IntenseOperator]

Great story FDC!

What a connection you have with her.

I don't have any kids of my own, but my girlfriend has much the same connection with her 9 year old daughter. Being witness to moments like that really hit home for me.

 

[fatdaddycool]

Hello all,

I wanted to take a moment to thank everyone for the kind and uplifting words that have been sent my way today. As I read all the replies this evening I had a moment to reflect on them, and something that SixFive said made me think a moment. Although I have never meant to compare or contrast my upbringing to anyone as less or more gratifying than the next, it is certainly not the norm. That being said, I have been on cloud nine for three days now, and I truly believe that every time I thought it might be too much to try to raise a little girl by myself...........you know what...........I am at a loss for words right now..................somehow all the emotion and supportive replies has rendered me speechless. I now sit here trying to find the appropriate words to tell my MJ's friends how truly lucky and blessed I am, because as I sit here thinking about it all, I cannot help but recall all those little moments in the last 21 years, all the pointed events of a relationship that only a Daddy and his little princess get to experience............. .........my mental snapshot of my and my daughters life..............that I get to keep all to myself......................for the rest of my life..........and all attempts at words fail..................so with that...I will say to all the parents out there......................what a great day it was for us today..............I can't wait to take advantage of tomorrow.............and thanks so much for yesterday.

Sorry for the somewhat corny and wordy post..............but I just haven't been myself the last few days.

Of course....I will be returning to my sarcastic ways shortly ......but I wanted to share this with someone.

Cheers all,

FDC

 

[big joe]

Thanks for sharing Fat..
Life at its best,,for sure! :clap:

 

[Blitz]

There's two things I know for sure.
She was sent here from heaven,
and she's daddy's little girl.
As I drop to my knees by her bed at night,
she talks to Jesus, and I close my eyes.
And I thank God for all of the joy in
my life, But most of all, for...

Butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer.
Stickin' little white flowers all up in her hair.
"Walk beside the pony
daddy, it's my first ride."
"I know the cake looks funny,
daddy, but I sure tried."
Oh, with all that I've done wrong,
I must have done something right
To deserve a hug every morning,
And butterfly kisses at night.

Sweet sixteen today,
She's looking like her momma
a little more everyday.
One part woman, the other part girl.
To perfume and makeup,
from ribbons and curls.
Trying her wings out in a great
big world. But I remember...

Butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer.
Stickin' little white flowers all up in her hair.
"You know how much I love you daddy,
But if you don't mind,
I'm only going to kiss you on
the cheek this time."
With all that I've done wrong
I must have done something right.
To deserve her love every morning,
And butterfly kisses at night.

All the precious time
Like the wind, the years go by
Precious butterfly
Spread your wings and fly

She'll change her name today.
She'll make a promise,
and I'll give her away.
Standing in the bride room
just staring at her,
she asked me what I'm thinking,
and I said "I'm not sure,
I just feel like I'm losing my baby girl."
Then she leaned over....and gave me....

Butterfly kisses, with her mama there
Sticking little flowers all up in her hair
"Walk me down the aisle, daddy, it's just about time"
"Does my wedding gown look pretty, daddy?"
"Daddy,
don't cry."
With all that I've done wrong,
I must have done something right
To deserve her love every morning,
And butterfly kisses
I couldn't ask God for more, man, this is what love is
I know I've gotta let her go, but I'll always remember
Every hug in the morning, and butterfly kisses...

 

[Box and one]

fatdaddy..great story.good read...and thanks for helping out Herb.He got 20 letters today.More will be coming in ...thanks..