Look for younger chicks. 30 is too old for a woman if you are just starting to get with her and you are in your 20's or early 30's. Set your targets on 18 to 21. Is 17 legal in Canada? If so dip those numbers one lower. You can thank me later.
Why not just ask her??? Asking her has to be better than teenage games, acting like it doesn't bother you is an immature approach. You must have cared for her if yah posted this so why not just have a talk??? Altho how many internet flings are lasting. It's worth talking just so yah don't continue to be pissed off.