need some real advice

[hedgehog]

This is simple.

You need to live a little. Conquer a goal that you never could when you were married. A triathlon, a marathon, a hike, a mma class, strength training, You need to find your inner manhood. It could be right there but just needing a little dusting off.

Dont even try to find a woman for love until you've refound yourself, Hedge.

enjoy the journey, the women will follow.



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[Old School]

starting tomorrow night

if you were ever going to draw up a set of guidelines and rules..

along with a do's and don'ts that you want in a companion NOW IS THE TIME TO DO IT..


ya gotta clean slate..

state them clear and state them often..

eliminates all the confusion about what you like and don't like and what you expect.

Smartest thing I ever did ...

to this day my now wife thanks me for being brutally honest and explaining in detail what I wanted from the relationship and the plan for a drama free life the rest of our days on this earth.

36 years old..you have the world by the ass..

plan..do it..

 

[Betone]

if you were ever going to draw up a set of guidelines and rules..

along with a do's and don'ts that you want in a companion NOW IS THE TIME TO DO IT..


ya gotta clean slate..

state them clear and state them often..

elimates all the confusion about what you like and don't like and what you expect.

Smartest thing I ever did ...

to this day my now wife thanks me for being brutally honest and explaining in detail what I wanted from the relationship and the plan for a drama free life the rest of our days on this earth.

36 years old..you have the world by the ass..

plan..do it..

Great Advice Old School....:0074

 

[Betone]

If your just wanting to get laid, the online thing could work out ........I have a buddy that used an online service and he complained about the following:

She was 10 years older than the picture online...
She looked so much better in the photo.
She is a weird bitch.
She never told me she had 5 kids.

ect...ect... GL Hedge, I wish you the best man.

Maybe he was looking on the wrong sites? :facepalm:

 

[hedgehog]

if you were ever going to draw up a set of guidelines and rules..

along with a do's and don'ts that you want in a companion NOW IS THE TIME TO DO IT..


ya gotta clean slate..

state them clear and state them often..

elimates all the confusion about what you like and don't like and what you expect.

Smartest thing I ever did ...

to this day my now wife thanks me for being brutally honest and explaining in detail what I wanted from the relationship and the plan for a drama free life the rest of our days on this earth.

36 years old..you have the world by the ass..

plan..do it..

:0008

 

[PocketAces]

Since you are in texas, how about the shooting range :brows:

Church opcorn2

I agree. Try Church.

 

[hedgehog]

Thanks guys

 

[kegray1]

I think the last 5 seconds of this clip sums it up:

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[Big Daddy]

I agree. Try Church.

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[BuckwheatJWN]

HEDGE , I GOT 4 WORDS OF ADVICE
1. BETTER TO GO THRU LIFE BEING ALONE THAN WISHING YOU WERE.
2. MARRY SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU, NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.
3. BETTER TO WANT SOMETHING YOU DON'T HAVE, THAN NOT WANTING SOMETHING YOU DO.
4. DON'T HOOK UP WITH A GAMBLER. WORST POSSIBLE COMMON INTEREST. :nono:

OTHER THAN THAT ENJOY THE RIDE. GUYS ON HERE ARE RIGHT. OVER HALF THE MARRIED MEN WISH THEY WERE YOU. :0008

 

[THE_THONG]

Hong Kong Club in Tijuana

:0074

 

[BobbyBlueChip]

I'd try dudes. Less drama, someone to break down a game with. . . I think it'd be great.

Be sure and let us know how it works out!!

 

[ppabart]

This is simple.

You need to live a little. Conquer a goal that you never could when you were married. A triathlon, a marathon, a hike, a mma class, strength training, You need to find your inner manhood. It could be right there but just needing a little dusting off.

Dont even try to find a woman for love until you've redefined yourself and reestablished the boundaries that were not set in the last marriage...

enjoy the journey, the women will follow. And be a good dad.



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Woody....

This is solid advice. I'm surprised nobody has said anything about this post. Fact is, when you are out there actively looking for a mate, it comes across that way to the opposite sex and not in a good way. It'll smell of desperation...and women almost always run away from that.

Getting out there, living life, and challenging yourself will absolutely throw the right vibes out to the opposite sex. It's amazing how things happen when you least expect it.

So my advice is to just live life and not focus so hard on "finding" that special person. Spend time doing things you enjoy and maybe try out some things that you either never had the time for or were always afraid you couldnt accomplish. Become a great person yourself and (like Woody said) the women will come. And not only that, it'll be women that like you for you.

Good luck out there.

 

[comfortable1]

Woody....

This is solid advice. I'm surprised nobody has said anything about this post. Fact is, when you are out there actively looking for a mate, it comes across that way to the opposite sex and not in a good way. It'll smell of desperation...and women almost always run away from that.

Getting out there, living life, and challenging yourself will absolutely throw the right vibes out to the opposite sex. It's amazing how things happen when you least expect it.

So my advice is to just live life and not focus so hard on "finding" that special person. Spend time doing things you enjoy and maybe try out some things that you either never had the time for or were always afraid you couldnt accomplish. Become a great person yourself and (like Woody said) the women will come. And not only that, it'll be women that like you for you.

Good luck out there.

2nd this... find and do what you enjoy and at some point you'll run into a like-minded foxy single lady. Don't rush it... I too am 'between wives' but have no interest in anything long-term at this point. Besides, football season is almost here!

 

[redsfann]

I'd try dudes. Less drama, someone to break down a game with. . . I think it'd be great.

Be sure and let us know how it works out!!

:142smilie

 

[Woodson]

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What does drinking coffee have to do with your inability to find a woman?

Since we're being honest let's do a timeline.

Three weeks ago - Hedgie: I'm free! I'm free!
Two weeks ago: Viva Las Vegas! Vegas!
Last week: Rejection, Hater of all girls poolside, sluts, bar whores... Denies hookups cause he's still in the process of divorce
This week: Where can I find women who of higher moral standards...

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Riiiiiiight.

 

[Sportsaholic]

What does drinking coffee have to do with your inability to find a woman?

Since we're being honest let's do a timeline.

Three weeks ago - Hedgie: I'm free! I'm free!
Two weeks ago: Viva Las Vegas! Vegas!
Last week: Rejection, Hater of all girls poolside, sluts, bar whores... Denies hookups cause he's still in the process of divorce
This week: Where can I find women who of higher moral standards...

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Riiiiiiight.

Maybe BBC's on to something opcorn2

 

[Hashish]

This is simple.

You need to live a little. Conquer a goal that you never could when you were married. A triathlon, a marathon, a hike, a mma class, strength training, You need to find your inner manhood. It could be right there but just needing a little dusting off.

Dont even try to find a woman for love until you've redefined yourself and reestablished the boundaries that were not set in the last marriage...

enjoy the journey, the women will follow. And be a good dad.



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This is some of the best advice I have ever read on this site, or anywhere else for that matter. :0008

 

[Trampled Underfoot]

This is simple.

You need to live a little. Conquer a goal that you never could when you were married. A triathlon, a marathon, a hike, a mma class, strength training, You need to find your inner manhood. It could be right there but just needing a little dusting off.

Dont even try to find a woman for love until you've redefined yourself and reestablished the boundaries that were not set in the last marriage...

enjoy the journey, the women will follow. And be a good dad.



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This is really good advice and not just for hedgy. The last thing you need after a divorce is go looking for love.

 

[Trampled Underfoot]

You should be out lookin' for broads and not love. :0074