You are right AR I did miss your point somewhat. Of course I don't like to see people get embarassed. My point, (justifiably not crystal clear), was that you can't let some nitwit on a computer, in this case Jimmy, embarass you. He is never going to show up at an event, because once he does the first thing he would have to do is kiss everyones ass and tell them not to take him seriously, that he is just a guy in an internet gaming forum messing around and that he really isn't the guy he appears to be on line. And then his schtick would be over. There is no way in hell Jimmy or anyone would ever go up to Raymond in real life and call him blockhead to his face and mean it. I have never met Ray, but by the looks of some of the pictures posted of him, I wouldn't ever want to piss him off. I agree, some of what JImmy says is offensive and crosses "the line". Some of what he says is damn funny and never would get spoken in the "real world". But there is nothing he could say about me on this forum that would embarass me or want me to have his address so I could go to his house and threaten him.