on wanting to kill one's brother-in-law

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Anybody else have such temptations or thoughts?
My sister is going through a tough time with this guy and, while I don't want to go to jail over this matter, I am considering that the possibility might be in my future,

They're not actually married, but close enough (living together for 8-ish years or something, and engaged, for whatever the funk that's worth).

Significant problems, especially between him and my parents. I dunno...probably will be viewed as some childish bullshit but these family matters are important to me...my priorities dictate that I must do what I can to resolve current problems or, if impossible, to keep the door open to ENDING such problems in whatever ugly fashion seems necessary.

Goofy, no doubt.
My own problem, no doubt.
Perhaps I've seen the Godfather movies too many times, but I believe that certain matters are best handled in certain ways, at least if they cannot be handled by more discretionary means.

A dick is a dick is a dick.
But people can change, can't they?
I need to talk to my sister, and this prick, but I also need to keep the door open to possible annexation.

This thread is a general waste of time.
Sorry for that.
Just ranting.

F-ck life.
Gee...wonder why I've been drinking so much.
Time for the goddamn ballgame.
Not peace of mind but maybe some escape just the same.

Again, my apologies.

Ain't wasting time a hoot?

bang!...bang!...
 

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Dont let it get you down - Take some time collect your thoughts and sit down with your sister and maybe even a marrage concellor. see if it is worth fixing if so then fix it if not your sister needs to go in a differnet direction.
 

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Dont let it get you down - Take some time collect your thoughts and sit down with your sister and maybe even a marrage concellor. see if it is worth fixing if so then fix it if not your sister needs to go in a differnet direction.

thanks for the words.
hoping I can find out my sister's perspective.
only really know one side of the story.
kinda like the guy but 50 thousand bucks is 50 thousand bucks.
long, needless story but my folks future is my folks future, and to hell with anyone who wants to funk with it.

I just hope that my sister is happy.
A certain call to the cops makes that questionable.
I could probably avoid jail, if it comes to that.
Dude is ex-British military but hand-to-hand is not what I have in mind.

Looking for other solutions.
Hendrix willing.

nice defense, Skankees.
:scared
 

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that's for people who WANT to stop
and cannot.

Been there, done that.
About 15 years ago.

At the moment I have no desires.

An understatement, to say the least.
 

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One of these days
I'm gonna change my evil ways

For now I'll keep ridin'

Riding on and on and on.


--AC-DC, Ride On
 

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I don't think dope and alcohol are helping your negative outlook.

Where is Buddy? He knows what you need.
 

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no freaking "dope" as you like to call it.

Give me that and I'll back off the booze.

Had it all of '07.
Check out my baseball record if you think that f-cked me up.

No further comment.
Anyone who calls it "dope" is the same.
The herb is a godsend.
No time for elaboration within.
Keep on keeping your mind stiff.

for now,
cheers
:toast:
:mj06:

my only mind-f-ck presently
 

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You said:

A dick is a dick is a dick.
But people can change, can't they? Usually not, once a dick always a dick
I need to talk to my sister, and this prick, but I also need to keep the door open to possible annexation.
 

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P.S.

no offense, Smurphy

you may be right

(I may be crazy)

but it just may be a lunatic you're looking for
 

EXTRAPOLATER

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You said:

A dick is a dick is a dick.
But people can change, can't they? Usually not, once a dick always a dick
I need to talk to my sister, and this prick, but I also need to keep the door open to possible annexation.

not at all sure what you mean.
probably best I use my own judgement.
don't think I called anyone a prick.
 

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Alrighty then. Might I suggest tennis? That's a hell of a sport - clears the body of toxins and mind of unwanted thoughts.
 

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I stand corrected, reading it over.

Regardless, it's a long story.

My bad for posting my concerns within, in present (and past) state.
 

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I stand corrected, reading it over.

Regardless, it's a long story.

My bad for posting my concerns within, in present (and past) state.

It's too late, you have drawn us in and we will bug you about this until the situation is resolved ...or football season starts - at which point I will suddenly lose interest.

God bless Extrapolator to be a shining beacon of herb awareness and accurate judger of brothers in-law.
 

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It's too late, you have drawn us in and we will bug you about this until the situation is resolved ...or football season starts - at which point I will suddenly lose interest.

God bless Extrapolator to be a shining beacon of herb awareness and accurate judger of brothers in-law.

bit of a mixed message there, I would say.

Bottom line, I suppose, is that my sister is convinced that she loves this guy (despite an ambiguous call to the cops, which I need elaboration on) and that I am trying to resolve issues between him and my folks...and her, if necessary.

I'm tempted to tell her next time to call me and not the cops, but jail-time, as mentioned, is not something that I envision as a life goal.
 
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