I'm hoping that once they graduate from High school or college (if they go)- that they can use this to either make a down payment on a house or a reliable car or something to that effect. It will be money put to good use not just cashed out and a here ya go spend it however you want it kind of thing. Being 9 and 12 they already have a pretty good handle on how money works and things like that. In fact people say I'm a cruel mother. When we go to the mall or shopping if they want something like a Wii game etc. I make them pay for it themselves. They get birthday and Christmas money- so they get part of that money to keep and the rest goes in their savings. I work hard for what I have and the only debt I have is my mortgage and normal monthly bills like Dish, Phone, utilities, etc. But I don't believe in buying my kids anything they want so if it's something they would like to have then they need to make sure they can "afford" it. Plus their dad (my ex) would give me grief for "spoiling" them. When I graduated from college my mom gave me the balance in my savings and I paid for most of my wedding with that money. When we built our house we had stock and we cashed that all out to make our down payment and then add a garage to the house. When we got divorced we sold the house and split the equity. Now I bought this house on my own 2.5 years ago already- time flies.
Aren't 529 plans strictly used for schooling expenses?
I don't know anything about gold etc so I don't know that I would be able to invest well with that.
You are correct - 529s are meant for eligible education expenses only. If your intent is a down payment on a home or vehicle - I would probably suggest looking into a taxable mutual fund account. Vanguard has the lowest expenses and offers a variety of funds. If you wanted to keep it simple - you could choose a fund that tracks the total stock market or just the s&p 500. Those are not actively managed so the fees are next to nothing. As the time approaches that you might want to take the money out, you can shift out of stocks and into a bond/money market type fund.
With that being said - if you are risk averse when it comes to money, it might be best to avoid stocks all together. It really comes down to what you are comfortable with and how you handle ups & downs in the market.

