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So, I just got home from the bar, and me and my buddy spent the night out with this girl who we work with. I am a team leader at this project we are on, and she is an employee, last year she hits on me knowing I am living with some one.

We go by for a year and we have drinks and hang out, I spend time at her place etc, and then I leave my girlfriend for her, she of course is younger, but me and the girl I was with had nothing going on really at all. so I figure time to end this and look elsewhere.

So this girl knows everything there is to know, she leads me on for a year now and we do things together, when we are drunk at her place. After a couple times she realizes again that we can't do this because of work, even though she doesn't report to me at work.

We are good friends and all, so tongiht we go out again and my buddy is with us who works with us but on another project at the same client and we have a good time, he orders her shots and like 7 blue moons on top of a pitcher, she is really drunk wanting to go home and go to sleep.

Me being the nice guy I am even though we cnan;'t do things anymore according to her, I offer to take her home and all that.

I have to take and park her car at work, and I come back and ready to leave and she says she is going home with him.

Yeah I am not pissed, I might just kill the ****er, am I wrong, that I cocked blocked or what

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After a couple times she realizes again that we can't do this because of work, even though she doesn't report to me at work.



that should have been the warning sign. Looks like she wants to move on to something else. on the bright side she got you out of a dead end relationship. Be thankful your buddy is taking this thing off of you. Kinda sneaky way but this girl doesn't sound like much of a prize.
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I would be ******* pissed at my buddy. I would lose it.

But then again it is a good thing you got out of this one, just didn't need to be your buddy to help you out.
 
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I don't get what he did wrong. Unless you guys had been serious, which I didn't get the impression that you were. I mean, after hooking up "a couple times" it's not like she was a long-term girlfriend. Unless you really, really liked this girl, AND your buddy knew that, I don't really see what the problem is.
 
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Be sure to tell him tomorrow morning" You didn't fukc her did you?" OMG she stunk so bad I had to kick her out, etc. Then tell him "and I found out she used to date all those guys from Chicago". Tell him thanks for taking the heat off you due to the work thing.

Slap him on the back, walk away and never talk to the backstabbing prick again.
 
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He probably should have given you a heads up on his intentions - that's common courtesy and would eliminate any confusion and hopefully bad feelings.

But this woman doesn't sound like someone worth fighting over anyway.
 
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Well, the fact that he was basically trying to get her obliterated to take her home with home is quite lame... But, you really cant be pissed, it was pretty savage on his part, but as we all know some guys will do anything for pussy. It seems like this chick is just a cocktease anyways, she may have played the same "cant do this because of work thing with your buddy."


I'd say your best bet now would be just to totally ignore this broad, who knows, she'll prolly dig it and let you take her to slam city.
 
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bjfinste said:
I don't get what he did wrong. Unless you guys had been serious, which I didn't get the impression that you were. I mean, after hooking up "a couple times" it's not like she was a long-term girlfriend. Unless you really, really liked this girl, AND your buddy knew that, I don't really see what the problem is.
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welll that is kinda the thing, and he knows that I like the girl, but it don't matter I guess. It was ian interesting night, but for sure got cocked block, she even handed me her keys earlier in the night and said your going to have to take me home

Odds she shows up at work
YES = +1000
NO = -1000

Will update later at work
 
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Please excuse me, but I must be perfectly frank about this girl. She seems like a drunkin whore to me. You mentioned drinking a few times in your post and this lady (yea right) is someone you need to let go, it will only get worse. We've all known women like this, give them booze and their personality changes, usually for the worse, good luck................pay back for your buddy is give him her.
 
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I would be more concerned about my job---this girl is a walking litigation time bomb. Appears she is using her only asset to work her way up ladder and when it don't work the next person buying her drinks will be Eddie Haskel ;)
 
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I of course like every other manager don'tt hink she would say something, but yeah it has crossed my mind a couple times, and that is why I do agree that we shouldn't do things. We can hang out and be friends and whatever, but we can't go there.

It was more I was pissed at him, because I know her so well and how she is when she gets really drunk. I looked at the tab from last night

6 blue moons, 5 red headed sluts, and a pitcher of blue moon was split between us 3. He tried to order another round and I said no, she is way too drunk as it is, and then he comes back with the picture of beer
 
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