might have some time to research for ya a little tomorrow--clerking at a firm here in austin so i should have some resources--
Should I Stay or Should I go (Cabo)
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cabo first of all think you know your stuff with capping.However, being a former guidance counselor& probation officer your 1st. thought now should be towards Houston,your son,& YELLING & SCREAAMING at your wife won`t make it.Advice: Mellow out, forget the money, love the kid and go on. GL
Cabo my man....just got back in town and looking through the posts for my good buddies opinions and was glad to see your name again. But once I read it, man I'm in shock. Sorry man. Don't know what to say, but keep your head up and keep doing what you been doing....posting and keeping the faith. Give me a shout man!!!
Guys, unless you've been in a situation same as Cabo you have no idea what he's going through!!, and he's not going to listen, I know I went through the same thing and heard the same advice(Good advice).
Cabo, I know you want to kick his ass(been there) and if you're as large and dangerous and you say, I wouldn't want to be that dude.
But do not and I mean do not KICK HIS ASS!!!!! Don't listen to her bullshit about you not being home, that's an inbred excuse all womem use when they want to place the guilt back on you, and if you were home more she say "how come you don't make more $$$.
What she's going to do now is use your son as a pawn so be prepared.Man I hate womem sometime, writing this really pisses me off!!
Cabo, when you are by yourself have a good CRY, SCREAM, or get a punching bag and have at it and STAY AWAY FROM THE BOOZE(sorry about the caps, but wanted to get my point across)it will only depress you even more, been there done that.
Lastly, I know I'm going to get killed w/this one but here goes, your confidence is in the dumper, go out and get LAID!!!, trust me it'll help.
You'll get over this and you'll be a better person, FATHER anf friend for it.
God Bless
Tom
Cabo, I know you want to kick his ass(been there) and if you're as large and dangerous and you say, I wouldn't want to be that dude.
But do not and I mean do not KICK HIS ASS!!!!! Don't listen to her bullshit about you not being home, that's an inbred excuse all womem use when they want to place the guilt back on you, and if you were home more she say "how come you don't make more $$$.
What she's going to do now is use your son as a pawn so be prepared.Man I hate womem sometime, writing this really pisses me off!!
Cabo, when you are by yourself have a good CRY, SCREAM, or get a punching bag and have at it and STAY AWAY FROM THE BOOZE(sorry about the caps, but wanted to get my point across)it will only depress you even more, been there done that.
Lastly, I know I'm going to get killed w/this one but here goes, your confidence is in the dumper, go out and get LAID!!!, trust me it'll help.
You'll get over this and you'll be a better person, FATHER anf friend for it.
God Bless
Tom
Cabo,
When I look at everyone's picks for basketball(because I am no good at capping that) I look for maybe 5 or 6 posters inparticular. You are one of them. I love your picks and think you do a great job at them. If you leave because you think you are no good at picking games or because you think no one looks at your picks, you are WRONG. In fact a friend of mine will call me and we will discuss plays and what other people picked and one of us will ask "did you see Cabo's picks." Trust me, you are well respected.
That being said I do want you to leave if it means taking care of you, your sis, and your mother. You must look out for your loved ones. You deserve better than this and so does your family. You do what you think is best for you. People read your picks but you need to focus on you and getting back on your feet. But if this gives you and avenue to escape then stay and I understand.
I will be praying for you.
Sincerely,
Ward
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When I look at everyone's picks for basketball(because I am no good at capping that) I look for maybe 5 or 6 posters inparticular. You are one of them. I love your picks and think you do a great job at them. If you leave because you think you are no good at picking games or because you think no one looks at your picks, you are WRONG. In fact a friend of mine will call me and we will discuss plays and what other people picked and one of us will ask "did you see Cabo's picks." Trust me, you are well respected.
That being said I do want you to leave if it means taking care of you, your sis, and your mother. You must look out for your loved ones. You deserve better than this and so does your family. You do what you think is best for you. People read your picks but you need to focus on you and getting back on your feet. But if this gives you and avenue to escape then stay and I understand.
I will be praying for you.
Sincerely,
Ward
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cabo
here are some notes from texas, i suggest you see what you can find in georgia b/c i think they should have some temporary hearings set up--
If there is any fear that the community estate(you and your wife's property) will be wasted during the pendency of a case, counsel may want to consider obtaining a temporary restraining order and/or a temporary injunction to prevent the improper dispoisiton of the community estate-- After a petition for divorce has been filed, the court may grant a temporary restraining order ex parte, and in addition, after notice and hearing, may grant a temporary injunction or other appropriate temporary order, as deemed necessary and equitable for the preservation of the property and protection of the parties. Such relief may be obtained to restrain a party from intentionally, or knowingly destroying, removing or otherwise harming property belonging to either or both of the parties...Furthermore, the court, after notice and hearing, may grant a temporary injunction prohibiting one or both parties from spending funds in an amount greater than what the court determines to be reasonable and necessary for living expenses...
Additonally, the party against whom the injunction is sought need not be the applicant's spouse..for example, an injunction may be obtained against a bank to prevent withdrawal of funds..
Cabo i only had about half an hour or so today to look stuff up(this is from the texas litigation guide so obviously it would not rule here, but georgia should have something similar) will talk to ya later!!
here are some notes from texas, i suggest you see what you can find in georgia b/c i think they should have some temporary hearings set up--
If there is any fear that the community estate(you and your wife's property) will be wasted during the pendency of a case, counsel may want to consider obtaining a temporary restraining order and/or a temporary injunction to prevent the improper dispoisiton of the community estate-- After a petition for divorce has been filed, the court may grant a temporary restraining order ex parte, and in addition, after notice and hearing, may grant a temporary injunction or other appropriate temporary order, as deemed necessary and equitable for the preservation of the property and protection of the parties. Such relief may be obtained to restrain a party from intentionally, or knowingly destroying, removing or otherwise harming property belonging to either or both of the parties...Furthermore, the court, after notice and hearing, may grant a temporary injunction prohibiting one or both parties from spending funds in an amount greater than what the court determines to be reasonable and necessary for living expenses...
Additonally, the party against whom the injunction is sought need not be the applicant's spouse..for example, an injunction may be obtained against a bank to prevent withdrawal of funds..
Cabo i only had about half an hour or so today to look stuff up(this is from the texas litigation guide so obviously it would not rule here, but georgia should have something similar) will talk to ya later!!
Guys Thanks for all the replys! It means more than you all know. I really like it here at MJ's and all the great people. Somehow, Im going to get another Computer so I can spend it using it for something positive, rather than recking my 3 years of anger consouling over a piece of crap. I love Houston, and will focus any time I have to him. But no matter how hard it is for me to post, Im not quitting my capping, and Im going to work twice as hard!! I just love it.
Ill figure a way to come up with 5k, I just gotta start trying harder. thanks again guys
take care..Cabo...
Ill figure a way to come up with 5k, I just gotta start trying harder. thanks again guys
take care..Cabo...
What is more important to you??????...I will
be microwaved for this question, but it is a
question you need to ask yourself...you just
lost everything that SHOULD be important to
you, and your MOST concerned about picking
games, there is something REAL WRONG here,
has it dawned on any of you people that this
man lost EVERYTHING because of his compulsive
gambling, you match this thread with yyz's
thread about finding a LIFE, come on people,
this guy needs help, the truth, not a bunch
of pat on the back horseshit...CABO, I'll be
praying for you tonight and tomorrow and the
days to come, but you need to call time out
and get your wife and child back...forget
about ILLINoIS +3....sorry man, you don't
realize it, but I REALLY CARE ABoUT YOU....
be microwaved for this question, but it is a
question you need to ask yourself...you just
lost everything that SHOULD be important to
you, and your MOST concerned about picking
games, there is something REAL WRONG here,
has it dawned on any of you people that this
man lost EVERYTHING because of his compulsive
gambling, you match this thread with yyz's
thread about finding a LIFE, come on people,
this guy needs help, the truth, not a bunch
of pat on the back horseshit...CABO, I'll be
praying for you tonight and tomorrow and the
days to come, but you need to call time out
and get your wife and child back...forget
about ILLINoIS +3....sorry man, you don't
realize it, but I REALLY CARE ABoUT YOU....
i will try to find some more information for you, cabo..i really think you need to seriously evaluate the pros and cons of getting immediate legal help...obviously i do not know the entire specifics but from what i can gather, you have a serious claim...
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For selfish reasons, I hope you stick around here at MJ's, I always read your posts, you're a really great capper in my opinion.
On the other stuff, you need a lawyer and you need one fast. Your wife simply cannot take joint property and leave you with nothing. Only a lawyer can help you in getting the right documents in front of the right judge.
Good Luck Wade. This really sucks the worst because of the holidays coming up. It kind of sounds to me like your (ex)wife is the one who needs anger management.
On the other stuff, you need a lawyer and you need one fast. Your wife simply cannot take joint property and leave you with nothing. Only a lawyer can help you in getting the right documents in front of the right judge.
Good Luck Wade. This really sucks the worst because of the holidays coming up. It kind of sounds to me like your (ex)wife is the one who needs anger management.
This post is in response to Cabo?s ?Should I Stay or Should I Go?.
Yes, this is the infamous ?KRIS?. A friend of mine, who I turned on to Madjacks?s a year ago because ?Cabo? was a great capper?, gave me a call and told me I had to take a look at this site, which I was very apprehensive to do. To my amazement, I can?t believe Cabo would try to use this site for personal reasons and lie about me in his latest scam over the Internet! All you guys, who replied to Cabo, I respect most of what you guys had to say. I was surprised that most of you were honestly concerned over this ?story?. Well, I?m going too finally make myself feel better and inform the world of the true MR. CABO. I would suggest you all take heart in the truth, and prepare yourself for looking elsewhere for Cabo to be posting. Because when he gets ?caught?, he runs! And the next posts he makes will be behind bars if he?s not careful. If I were a gambling ?woman?, I would never place a bet with Cabo, nor should anyone else. Maybe now, I?ll get legal advice on defamation of character.......
This is so humiliating that I would bring myself onto a message forum in front of total strangers and have to defend my name and honor. But for the first time in four years, I?m taking charge of my life and not going to allow this guy to use me any more for his own selfish, manipulative, deceptive plans. Normally I wouldn?t give a crap what this guy does or says, but after reading this LIE and reading most all your sincere concerns, I honestly feel in my heart, that this guy needs to be exposed for what he really is. First of all, if any of you have really been following Cabo?s posts, you would know that I, Kris, left ?Cabo? FOR GOOD last April. And yes, I did leave because of his gambling, drug addiction, fraudulent lifestyle, criminal behavior, cheating, stealing from his family, lies, need I go on.........
I?m not here to speculate on this latest desperation for money. I?m sure he has done something beyond our belief has normal people to go to this extreme and make up such a story. Believe me, I?ve heard them all.............. What is it this time Cabo, credit cards, gambling, child support, what? But let me inform you all, that this story is a complete LIE. I left Cabo and his dysfunctional behavior last April (through an Annulment, thank the Lord, since he was not divorced when he married me two years earlier, and any of his debts would not follow me). He doesn?t even have his own home, much less any of the imaginary ?passions? that was taken. We do not have children together either?!?. He sure doesn?t have a checking account or any other credit his name. Maybe someone else?s, but not his. That?s probably why he needs the money. To pay off someone??am I right, ?Cabo??!
Lastly, save your time and energy and concern for this latest ?story?. Wade you should really read through these posts and see that there are really good people in this world. One day when you really are in need, there?s not going to be anyone there for you because you have definitely ?cried wolf? one too many times and gone to a major extreme with exploiting me and this story this way.
I?m sure most of you read right through this pity story and knew what he was up to, and I know you all are smart enough to not ?lend him money? or even help this compulsive, insensitive, selfish, con artist. This is still so hard to believe that I lived with this kind of behavior and truly loved this man. He?ll realize that one-day. It hurts to know that he never loved me, but this kind of person is incapable of loving himself, much less anyone else. I am so much better off now. My life has totally done at 180-degree turn around since I got away from this person. I never realized what pain compulsive behavior could cause those people closest to them.
I?m ending this with an apology of having to take up your time and using this forum that you guys use for your hobby and doing something that most of you do for fun. I?m finally at a place in my life where the life with Cabo was just a bad dream. I did all I could for this man and realize nothing or no one will ever change him. I just couldn?t stand back and watch him get away with this. Wade, you need to take a good look around you. You have nothing and never will until you get professional help. Stop bringing everyone around you down. You are a 38-year-old man, for once in your life, take heed in your mistakes and learn from them. Wade, if not for yourself, but your son.
For you that read this, don?t expect a response back from ?Cabo?. He?s not man enough to come back and tell the truth. With that, God Bless you, take care of yourself and your families, and don?t ever let gambling or anything else bring you down to this level. It does affect everyone around you. Especially those you love. Please keep my family and me in your prayers and have a blessed holiday season! Kris
Yes, this is the infamous ?KRIS?. A friend of mine, who I turned on to Madjacks?s a year ago because ?Cabo? was a great capper?, gave me a call and told me I had to take a look at this site, which I was very apprehensive to do. To my amazement, I can?t believe Cabo would try to use this site for personal reasons and lie about me in his latest scam over the Internet! All you guys, who replied to Cabo, I respect most of what you guys had to say. I was surprised that most of you were honestly concerned over this ?story?. Well, I?m going too finally make myself feel better and inform the world of the true MR. CABO. I would suggest you all take heart in the truth, and prepare yourself for looking elsewhere for Cabo to be posting. Because when he gets ?caught?, he runs! And the next posts he makes will be behind bars if he?s not careful. If I were a gambling ?woman?, I would never place a bet with Cabo, nor should anyone else. Maybe now, I?ll get legal advice on defamation of character.......
This is so humiliating that I would bring myself onto a message forum in front of total strangers and have to defend my name and honor. But for the first time in four years, I?m taking charge of my life and not going to allow this guy to use me any more for his own selfish, manipulative, deceptive plans. Normally I wouldn?t give a crap what this guy does or says, but after reading this LIE and reading most all your sincere concerns, I honestly feel in my heart, that this guy needs to be exposed for what he really is. First of all, if any of you have really been following Cabo?s posts, you would know that I, Kris, left ?Cabo? FOR GOOD last April. And yes, I did leave because of his gambling, drug addiction, fraudulent lifestyle, criminal behavior, cheating, stealing from his family, lies, need I go on.........
I?m not here to speculate on this latest desperation for money. I?m sure he has done something beyond our belief has normal people to go to this extreme and make up such a story. Believe me, I?ve heard them all.............. What is it this time Cabo, credit cards, gambling, child support, what? But let me inform you all, that this story is a complete LIE. I left Cabo and his dysfunctional behavior last April (through an Annulment, thank the Lord, since he was not divorced when he married me two years earlier, and any of his debts would not follow me). He doesn?t even have his own home, much less any of the imaginary ?passions? that was taken. We do not have children together either?!?. He sure doesn?t have a checking account or any other credit his name. Maybe someone else?s, but not his. That?s probably why he needs the money. To pay off someone??am I right, ?Cabo??!
Lastly, save your time and energy and concern for this latest ?story?. Wade you should really read through these posts and see that there are really good people in this world. One day when you really are in need, there?s not going to be anyone there for you because you have definitely ?cried wolf? one too many times and gone to a major extreme with exploiting me and this story this way.
I?m sure most of you read right through this pity story and knew what he was up to, and I know you all are smart enough to not ?lend him money? or even help this compulsive, insensitive, selfish, con artist. This is still so hard to believe that I lived with this kind of behavior and truly loved this man. He?ll realize that one-day. It hurts to know that he never loved me, but this kind of person is incapable of loving himself, much less anyone else. I am so much better off now. My life has totally done at 180-degree turn around since I got away from this person. I never realized what pain compulsive behavior could cause those people closest to them.
I?m ending this with an apology of having to take up your time and using this forum that you guys use for your hobby and doing something that most of you do for fun. I?m finally at a place in my life where the life with Cabo was just a bad dream. I did all I could for this man and realize nothing or no one will ever change him. I just couldn?t stand back and watch him get away with this. Wade, you need to take a good look around you. You have nothing and never will until you get professional help. Stop bringing everyone around you down. You are a 38-year-old man, for once in your life, take heed in your mistakes and learn from them. Wade, if not for yourself, but your son.
For you that read this, don?t expect a response back from ?Cabo?. He?s not man enough to come back and tell the truth. With that, God Bless you, take care of yourself and your families, and don?t ever let gambling or anything else bring you down to this level. It does affect everyone around you. Especially those you love. Please keep my family and me in your prayers and have a blessed holiday season! Kris
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