sober now
- Thread starter hedgehog
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Call me crazy but I don't recall any of his stories on here actually mentioning active friendships :shrug:
Hedgie you need to replace the void created by you ex with something positive. Booze, strippers, flings...these things don't qualify.
Look in the mirror and man the f up. You said you want to lose weight, right? Well when you don't have your kids and you feel empty get your shit to the gym. Make a positive change. If not for you for your kids. We are all allowed a time of self-pity after a life change. I like to call it the five minute rule. You've got five minutes to cry and whine and then you need to get on with it. Your five minutes ended a while ago. You sound pissed at your ex. Use that to motivate yourself. I guarantee you she isn't posting on crazyjaneshopping.com about how shitty her life is. All your reckless lifestyle is doing is validating why she probably left you in the first place. If you want to really piss her off, lose 30 lbs or whatever u wanted to and become such a great dad to your kids that they won't shut up about you to her. THAT is what will piss her off. Not hearing about daddy's new girl of the week.
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ex-wife knows I am dating a girl I work with, new girl is older than me and set in her ways its good sometimes and very bad other times :facepalm: up and down relationship as most are
anyway...
Good advise Saint, your a good guy, I need to get serious about something
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Even though saint is a dick, this is a great post. A guy who can't be alone for a few days really has some issues. Suck it up. If you don't you are gonna end up with even bigger issues very shortly.
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Atleast he's managed to stay out of the Mini Dumpster, that Forum has already been reserved :0074
