how can anyone give up on super heroes and santa claus? That bears directly on dreams and childhood wishes. I remember when I found out that orgies aren't regularly practiced like on the movies my Dad kept on the top shelf in his closet. I was sadly dissappointed but that certainly doesn't mean I have forsaken my belief that I will one day be surrounded by many beautiful naked women, pleasuring me and my pals Aquaman, the Silver Surfer, Superman, and Santa. Answer me this did you see "When Harry Met Sally"? Have you since seen a women have an orgasm over a Tuna Melt in a family restaurant? Has Sandra Bullock chased you down and told you she loves you anyway despite all the problems you have? Have you fallen in love with a man like in "The Crying Game" yet? I say this don't give up on fantasy because you will find that fantasy will certainly give up on you soon enough.