most areas have free anger management classes or therapy available.you might want to look into this because i have a feeling this may carry over into your personal life .many experts think one's sexual performance is adversely affected by latent anger issues.moving on to your ranting about coach i checked a few sources and found he has 11 national coach of the year awards in 8 different seasons,60-15 record in ncaas,9 final fours,3 nat'l titles,2001 naismith hall of fame inductee with chaney and moses malone,west point grad and army captain,663-234 overall record,2001 americas best coach award by time magazine and cnn,1992 sporting news sportsman of the year and i quote"on the court and off,krzyzewski is a family man first,a teacher second,a basketball coach third and a winner at all three.he is what's right about sports...".his record in 1995 when he went for back surgery was 9-3.calhoun took 13 days off for prostrate cancer surgery.he returned after missing 5 games.i believe the ncaa decided that if a coach returns before year is over all of the games count. if it makes you feel better please take the liberty of including all of 1995 duke record with coach k's overall record.i won't bore you with the list of all the charitable work,community work,donation's for scholarship endowment at duke in the name of his brother frank a retired fireman in chicago,the graduation rates for his players and other facts that might cause you to respect the man.check the web like i did.you might learn something.in closing let me know if you would like to wager 1000 dollars that any team from texas goes farther in ncaas this yr than duke.the winner can donate to their favorite charity.