the "cool chick" update

[kickserv]

well...........due to the overwealming response I received for this post:

http://www.madjacksports.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=139891&highlight=need+advice


I thought it was only fair to let the madjackers know what happened



well I waited over a week........then I called her......she had no interest in speaking with me, I didn't even ask her what i wanted to ask her. The conversation took about 5 minutes, and nothing was accomplished. Guess I should have taken fellow madjacker advice and not even called her. After I hung up, I realized she hadn't even given me a thought

oh well.........I'm not going to bash her, but on the other hand I won't be calling her the "cool chick anymore :tongue

so it's all done........she wants nothing to do with me.......kickserv is in the ditch......bring out the magets.......he's done


But hey, there was one good thing that came out of this........amazing sex.....she was amazing :clap: That dam sex thing......tough to find.......oh well.......have to keep looking......perhaps I'll give Carmen Electra a call.....I hear she wants me :tongue


once again guys....thanks so much for all the advice........too bad it didn't work out.......no regrets though....ok just one..I wish she realized why I was upset.........but hey..guess it really doesn't matter


oh and I have some advice for you guys........if you try to handicap a female........don't......way to tough to figure out :tongue Funny thing is.......I thought I knew the "cool chick".........WRONG WRONG WRONG...........:tongue........was I ever off.......I'm an idiot.what can I say

 

[AR182]

kickserv,


sorry to hear about your breakup. but don't worry, there are plenty of women out there looking also. i have faith in you to bounce back.

good luck & get back out there.

 

[Stang]

Trust me, there are a lot better fish in the tank, just have some patience and enjoy life.

 

[IntenseOperator]

Kick

Kick

You seem like a very decent individual

remember....

That is NOT what many women are looking for. She most likely did you a favor my friend.

Onward and upward

Although I don't think you would mind if she used you for your body in the future.

(That's my big problem, woman aren't interested in my mind, LOL)

 

[taoist]

Trust me, there are a lot better fish in the tank....

...ain't that the damn truth!!!

 

[noodle]

true.........

 

[freelancc]

:canada1

 

[phin8181]

.......the "club" just keeps getting larger.......:com:

 

[kickserv]

thanks guys............and INtense.....your oh so right......I wouldn't mind at all......

 

[CHARLESMANSON]

Damn Kicky!!!! I just now read all that shit and it made me mad!!! lol So many times in my life I thought a girl was the one and she strayed....not your fault!!!
God Women suck!!!! All I know is anytime I ever had a GF, the best way to permanently put me off of her is if she was "with another guy, after she was with me".....That was the nail in the coffin.
If you have as sexual and emotional relationship with a woman, and at some point afterward sleeps with another man....immediately you need to CUT HER OFF!!!
It may seem like the hardest thing at the time but if the chick F's another dude then you need to laugh at her worthless ass and move on to A BETTER ONE!!!!
----You'll see, you will have an awesome chick someday who you mill marry and have children and a great family with. You won't even remember that chick.
just be patient...there's a chance you will not meet her til 2008??? :shrug:

But when you do...you will know.

Now go take a fawking shot of Grey Goose for me ya bastard!!!!!

 

[kickserv]

Charles.your a funny dude.........:tongue

but ummmm.....as stated.....she was never my girlfriend......but hey, good points nonetheless

 

[CHARLESMANSON]

You know what I mean .....when I say GF........(used the term a little lossely)...you built what you thought was something somewhat solid with her.
"HaPpY TrAiLs tO YoU!!!!"

 

[CHARLESMANSON]

Kicky ----- just ask yourself ~

"Is the screwing you're getting ................worth the screwing you're getting???"

 

[IntenseOperator]

Damn Kicky!!!! I just now read all that shit and it made me mad!!!
God Women suck!!!! All I know is anytime I ever had a GF, the best way to permanently put me off of her is if she was "with another guy, after she was with me".....That was the nail in the coffin.
If you have as sexual and emotional relationship with a woman, and at some point afterward sleeps with another man....immediately you need to CUT HER OFF!!!

Charles....

the next step?


Are we talking gun or knife

 

[kickserv]

guys........calm down........this girl isn't as bad as your making her out to be (partly my fault)...and remember there is two sides to every story..not like I was perfect, yes, I think she could have done things differently, but then again so could I..not like I was perfect either.....just don't want you guys to think she was the horrible chick..she wasn't. I mean if she was a "bad chick" I wouldn't have called her the "cool chick" now would I. Obviously I cared about her...just wish things didn't end the way they did! Obviously she sees things way differently then I do.......ok way way differently. Of course she has a boyfriend now.......so it all really doesn't matter! Obviously I didn't have what she wanted. Hey guess I'm a good guy huh.....I do wish her the best.........yes I know I know.....what can I say....I'm a good guy......!!!

But as you guys said...live and learn.....and I've learned alot.....


or you can some it up like this:

"chicks man..chicks"



so.........any madjackers have a hot sister :tongue

 

[edludes]

If you feel hurt because "she took you lightly" it is merely a reflection of her lack of depth,it is no reflection on you.(She's a lightweight who is great at sex.)Don't adjust your behavior in any way in response to this bad experience.She just wasn't what you thought she was.Too bad for her,good that you found out sooner than later.There are many worthy ones out there and finding them is the part of the fun.Forget this lightweight.GL

 

[KMA]

Why would you wait a week to call her??? She was most likely waiting that week for your call!!! If she was important why put it off???

 

[kickserv]

KMA..trust me......she wasn't waiting for me to call.....I would like to say she was......but nope....she wasn't.......I'm with the magets baby :tongue