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Blitz

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To my colleagues of a "certain age" (and some who are close
enough!)...

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.
Riding in the back of a pickup truck on a warm day was always a
special treat.
Our baby cribs were covered with brightly colored lead-based paint.
We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors, or cabinets, and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets. (Not to mention hitchhiking to town as a young kid!)

We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle. Horrors.
We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then rode down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times we learned to solve the problem.

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all day.

No cell phones. Unthinkable. We played dodge ball and sometimes the ball would really hurt.
We got cut and broke bones and broke teeth and there were no law suits from these accidents. They were accidents. No
one was to blame but us. Remember accidents?

We had fights and punched each other and got black and blue and learned to get over it.

We ate cupcakes, bread and butter, and drank sugar soda but we were never overweight... we were always outside playing.

We shared one grape soda with four friends, from one bottle and no one died from this?

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo 64, X Boxes, video games at all, 99 channels on cable, video tape movies, surround sound, personal cellular phones, Personal Computers, internet chat rooms ... we had friends.
We went outside and found them. We rode bikes or walked to a
friend's home and knocked on the door, or rung the bell or just walked in and talked to them.

Imagine such a thing. Without asking a parent! By ourselves! Out there in the cold cruel world! Without a guardian. How did we do it?

We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and ate worms and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes, nor did the worms live inside us forever.

Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment.....

Some students weren't as smart as others so they failed a grade and were held back to repeat the same grade.....Horrors. Tests were not adjusted for any reason.

Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected. No one to hide behind. The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law, imagine that!

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem solvers and inventors, ever. The past 50 years has been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all.
 

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well said,seems we use walk or ride are bikes everywere dad had the only car at work,no wonder kids are overweight today. the one black and white t.v only came on at night.thanks forgot about the good old days.:walk:
 

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How true - and we were also able to watch shows like The Three Stooges...and somehow we were able to figure out that poking someone in the eyes or hitting them the head with a frying pan was just a tv joke. It didn't cause us to commit violent acts of our own.
 

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Yeah I was there, walking through the woods and going swimming in the creek. All the kids from 2 miles around were there, and no supervision, no lunch, and no time limits. Ahh that was great!!

Bob
 

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at 41 thats what it was like for me,also full contact fb no pads in a lot or church grounds cat fishing all night in the summer golf with 5 to a group and every shot was a 4 or 5:D basket ball or whiffle ball at night under the street light in the summer listening to pittsbugh play baseball with bob prince. playing basket ball inside in the cold winter nights at a church that had a full court in the basement real wood floor. 7-9 3-4 nights a week after football season even if you played hs hoops.

playing 5 cent to 25cent card games in my basement on the 6 foot pool table i got for christmas we used it all the time.

sled riding at night down big hills where we lived with a fire in a trash can sometimes a old tire for heat talk about black smoke.

dirt claude battles, or when a new house was being built and the had mounds of clay would make a perfect bike jump and yes someone also bit the dust little blood but got right back up and did it again.

early morning bass and walley fishing in the summer at the river and carp fishing after a storm boy could they fight and trout fishing in the winter was lucky enough to have 5 streams full of trout within 15 miles of wher i was from one we could walf to.

taking vegtables from peoples garden at night as a snack when we were aloud to camp out in one of our back yards.

sundays to sick for sunday school and church to sick to watch fb or hoops or go outside and play.

when you were sick i remember 2 types of meds the one was liquid tasted like those pink round soft mints that would desolve in your mouth and the other ouch:mad: cam in like 10-16 submarine looking shape plastic flat holder in foil and you knew wher they were going then had to lay still for 20 mins boy what a joy that was wonder if little kids still get that great adventure hope not.

got in trouble in school you knew what was comming the wooden paddle always by the shop or gym teacher then they would call home and depending on what you did you got it again or worse grounded for a week from going out to play after school would rather have the wood. get in trouble in the nebiorhood any parent had the right to turn you over the knee and then the phone call to your mom and same thing back to the room .

having to go on the suday family drive on sundays nothing worse when you want to play but its family drive day fall was the big time to see the trees change colors drive to the mts stop off at the road side apple stands. and the worse having to weed the garden mom canned beans made pickles stewed tomatoes green peppers and rubarb,man i love rubarb pie with milk warm. or pick black berriers and then mom wouldbake us a pie.

i hated lot of it when i was little but i really miss it at times now and evenmore with some of our family not around anymore.

but the best evey year family vacation 10 days for us myrtle beach most years it was great then did the gettysburgh thing jamestown and all that montochello(sp) t.jeffersons home and the whole civil war area not bad but was not the beach and going sking on the weekends in the winter man you brought back some good times thank you very much this tread made my day and also opened my eyes to let me see i need to live again then work work and work. i golf all the time but don't fish kind of hard unless i go home or to house in fl. but there is so much i can still do have a park where i live with basket ball raquette ball and i own both,even a foot ball field i can use and just go kick a football and try field goals off a tee. thanks this was a great thread hell 41 made me think i was old my life work out ,hang on pc working and squeeze in 3 rounds of golf a week,in fl i would go to the driving range every night for an hour to work on things and loved it hell i have a callaway golf center 3 miles from my house 90 slots up staris down staris and great lit par 3 course with carts very tuff but fun and good work for short game. time to live again. i do watch the jetson and flintstones and johnny quest and a few other toons on toon network and the other one they own think its boom. well thanks for the smiles and great thoughts:) :)
 

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Man Blitz, you must have lived in my neighborhood in Toledo. I can remember jumping on my bike first thing in the morning in the summer time, right after finishing all my jobs, having my mitt hanging from the handle bars and start collecting the guys to play ball. We would play all day, then have to beat my Dad home before he got home from work.

Those were great days. Eat as a family every night and sit and watch TV all together at night for an hour or so, until bedtime and would go right to sleep. being so tired and do it all over again the next day.

I also remember being able to eat anything and as much as I wanted and still being skinny as a rail, oh I miss those days:cry:

Great Post Blitz, thanks for bringing back all those great memories.
 

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Great thread guys, everyone should read this.
Im only 25, and it brought back a lot of memories for me.:jump:
 

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i am only 26 but can certainly relate to what you are sayin -- grew up in a town of 125 people....barely had enough kids from high school all the way down to being able to throw a baseball to play.....thats what we lived for.....entertainment was to fish, play balll, go to co-op for a 15 cent dr. pepper and ride bikes around town......didn't get along one day and we would get in a fight and yeah we woudl get beat up but we learned our lessons.....even 20 years ago -- i get in trouble i get spanked in school by principal -- and when i go home i really get to face the music

nowadays kids are fat, lazy, selfish, complainers, cryers, excuse makers etc.....losing a lot of what makes america great......times have changed a whole lot......exactly right about that.....
 

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That sure brings back memories.

Do kids still play stoop ball, or slap ball, or punch ball,or stick ball, or johnny on the pony? We use to play this all day & even into the night. Or about tag? This is a game we played well into the night. About box baseball, or chinese handball against a brick wall?

Fletcher & Ctownguy,

I guess growing up in Brooklyn was pretty similar to what you did as kids. And Fletcher, I remember playing tackle football without equipment. I still feel the aches.

I also remember hiding a portable radio under my covers & listening to the Yankee games from the west coast late at night. I thought Mel Allen was the greatest baseball announcer I ever heard.

Great memories!
 

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Wow Great thread! Brings back lots of memories. Will tell a few on myself. As kids the only time we got a soda was when we had babysitter(if we were good) was cool-aid otherwise.Rather then take cap off soda we would punch small hole in cap with ice pick so it would last longer.
Would use my bike (with the baseball card and cloths pins for sound effect) to hunt for bottles worth 2cents in those days,but biggest yearly payoff was a 2 day yearly picnic event that had same rides every year. One ride would turn you upside down. So each morning as sun came up I would ride my bike 4 miles to be there at crack of dawn to go thru sawdust under ride and pick up change that had fallen out of peoples pockets. Would find as much as $5 some days which was like hitting lottery.:D Would rat hole it all till Christmas and paid for all gifts plus had some left over.

Biggest change I see between adolecents then and now is we use to spend our money to soup up or repair our cars (55-57 chevs were big then) Now as long as they have stereo that will vibrate others auto's when they are near,they are quite content.

Reminds of theme song from All in The Family,"Those were the days"
 

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I'm 38, and everything you said in this post fits my experience as a kid as well. Sandlot football with no pads, a game of softball with the mush ball and a wooden bat-- who can forget those games of kick the can all night until the streetlights came on-- then into the house, grab a bath, right to bed only to spend every daylight hour the next day outside with your buddies. And if you got mad at your buddies, and it led to a fight, well-- you fought with your hands-- one on one-- and it got settled. You stayed mad for a day or so, then you were friends once again. What a perfect way to spend the summers...:D
Carried the newspaper when I was a kid, so knew all the neighbors. In those days, everyone knew the neighbors anyway-- not like today when you are lucky to even know your neighbors first name, much less have them over for a bar-b-que. Made it even harder to get into mischief as the neighbors didn't hesitate to call your house and report any misdeeds that they caught you at. And spankings? All the neighbors knew that if they caught me or my brothers doing something that warrented a spanking, they administered it and told my parents about it later. Can you imagine that happening today? And people wonder why younger people seem to have no respect for anyone....
My house was two blocks from the elementary school that I went to. Huge grassy area next to the school was where we spent so much of our childhood. last year, the school board voted to close that school and one other small one in town to save money. You can not believe how sad that made me-- I actually picked up the phone and called several of my classmates from that school-- some I hadn't talked to in 25 yrs-- and asked them about it. Everyone was as sad as I was that such a positive influence in our lives is no longer available to the kids in that neighborhood today.......
 
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redsfann said:
. last year, the school board voted to close that school and one other small one in town to save money. You can not believe how sad that made me-- I actually picked up the phone and called several of my classmates from that school-- some I hadn't talked to in 25 yrs-- and asked them about it. Everyone was as sad as I was that such a positive influence in our lives is no longer available to the kids in that neighborhood today.......

They shut down Johnson????? Did the Adams expansion take the overflow, or did Wilson expand also? Geez, don't make it home enough anymore :(
 

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AR182 said:
That sure brings back memories.

And Fletcher, I remember playing tackle football without equipment. I still feel the aches.



We also played football with no pads.

I remember in ninth grade we had a big afternoon game scheduled at Phaniffs hill. One of the few lots in the neighborhood where not one came out and chased us away.

We also played football in the streets and would get the cops called on us. Our football landed on Old lady Simms porch one time and she took our football inside her house and wouldnt give it back. We called the cops on her and when they got there we told them there had been a theft and we had ten witnesses.

The cop got our ball back and told us to go home.
We plotted against that woman for years. We thought she was a witch and the house was haunted also.

Another favorite place was the Ames parking lot , huge lot and we would play under the lights from pole to pole. Nothing like night football. We played touch on the asphalt though.

We loved to play on Sunday when the NFL was playing. Just made the games seem important. This one game the whole neigborhood was there. We are about to start and this big kid named David the bully showed up in full pads. Must have been his birthday or something. He figured he would go out and find some little squirts to test them on. He was wearing # 79 if I recall correctly.

David the Bully was 16 and must have weighed about 240. He sweated alot.

We finally agreed after much discussion about his full pads and us with none to let him play.
On the third play of the game David the Bully tackled jimmy hamilton and broke his leg in two places. Ambulance and the whole nine yards.

Talk about putting a end to our afternoon of October football.
I am not sure if David came to our field that day to intentionally hurt us but he may have.

David the bully also had a basketball hoop in his backyard and we would play under the lights during the summer until late.

He lowered the basketball goal down to 7 ft so he could dunk on everyone as we were mostly short stops.

When he dunked he would yell Wilt the Stilt......

Sometimes we would get hit in the face as David
the bully dunked on us with the force of King Kong. Oh the memorys.

One good thing came out of that for me was from boxing out David the bully who towered over us and outwighted us by
100 lbs I was able to learn the box out skills of a Bill Russell.
These skills served me well all my basketball life.

After I got tall enough to dunk the 7 ft goal. David the Bully wouldnt let us play any more at his house under the summer lights. Maybe he figured his work was done.


Scott in memory
 
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