Actually, the "feminine side" lesson was quite up front. Screech consoled Bob Golic and said it was OK for men to cry. Really set a positive tone for the entire episode.
I don't fall asleep crying, but I do wake up in tears. I don't know what that means.
I think you guys are missing the point about the inner circle. It's not a physical group of powerful peaople. It's a mental state of total clarity and ultimate peace and wisdom. Everyone should seek their inner inner circle.