My thoughts are with you, makes me think how lucky I am. Wife and kids all in good health.
You are in my prayers tonight.
Tom
You are in my prayers tonight.
Tom
Tuesday 08-18-09
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Thanks.
Wow, what a terrible night of sleeping. Up at 12:57, 4:24, 5:24 and finally said F it, I'm getting old of bed. Just a sickening feeling knowing I will be leaving here in a few minutes to spend my wedding anniversary at the grave. Not fair.
jr11
Wow, what a terrible night of sleeping. Up at 12:57, 4:24, 5:24 and finally said F it, I'm getting old of bed. Just a sickening feeling knowing I will be leaving here in a few minutes to spend my wedding anniversary at the grave. Not fair.
jr11
always seems that those left behind are the ones that truly suffer...ridiculously cruel to lose her at such a young age...i`ve lost some immediate family the last few years....it`s devastating..changes a person forever...
but,you`re still a young man,my bud...don`t shut everything out...she wouldn`t want you to do that.....
you were obviously blessed to have found her..
grieve long and hard...but,try and think about consciously setting a point in your life in which you consciously make an effort to reenter society in a meaningful way and get your life re-started....
you`ve got a long life left to live.....sounds like you`ll have to literally force yourself to start again....i`m afraid it`s more hard work for you,my friend...
but you`ll do it...i know you will...
but,you`re still a young man,my bud...don`t shut everything out...she wouldn`t want you to do that.....
you were obviously blessed to have found her..
grieve long and hard...but,try and think about consciously setting a point in your life in which you consciously make an effort to reenter society in a meaningful way and get your life re-started....
you`ve got a long life left to live.....sounds like you`ll have to literally force yourself to start again....i`m afraid it`s more hard work for you,my friend...
but you`ll do it...i know you will...
Jr, I don't know if it will mean anything or not but my wife and I have been fighting for the last few days(we hardly ever are upset with each other) and I swore to myself that I wouldn't cave until she said sorry. Well after reading this I realized how stupid I was being. I immediately went and told her I loved her and that I was sorry for being an ass. She said she was sorry to.
I then told her about a guy named jr11 on MJs and how he said he wished he could tell his wife he loved her one more time. I may not be able to help you out with your hurt but I want to say thank you for helping my wife and I.
I then told her about a guy named jr11 on MJs and how he said he wished he could tell his wife he loved her one more time. I may not be able to help you out with your hurt but I want to say thank you for helping my wife and I.
Glad I could help layinwood....
I would even take a fight with my wife right now. I realize I don't know many of you with me today, but I would ask if you want to help me, do something special for your other today. Tell them how great they are, send flowers, do dinner, and just go out of your way to say I love you.
I know I did a lot for my wife. I married her knowing this could be this way one day. I just never thought it would be so soon. It's hard telling a grave marker that she was everything and that I love her this morning to the tune of our wedding song from Bryan Adams "When you love someone".
I wish I could share a picture or video of this truly beautiful spectacular woman, and some of you have seen her. It's just not fair. You work so hard to get yourself ahead in life, which for the most part I am (career, money, house, and so on), and to lose the most important thing hurts real bad.
You hear all these stories of divorce, break-ups, and people unhappily married. Not us, we had a great marriage and I was so proud to be. Please go out of your way today, at least do it for me.
jr11
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hey just want to say my thouhts and prayers are with you. I just read your last post about your wedding song and my wedding song was heaven by Bryan Adams and I know ur wife is up there smiling down on you.
