For Dry1
For Dry1
I usually just lurk (or vent) since I'm an absolutely pitiful handicapper myself so let me say first how much I am indebted to guys like Thunder (and there are lots of other free posters here who are excellent cappers) who go to the trouble EVERY DAY of putting up their selections for ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Since I found MadJacks I have gone from a big loser to a moderate winner - and that's a hell of a difference.
For my new friend, Dry1,
Listen buddy, we've ALL been there at one time or another. You're getting great advice from some experienced people here and I will reiterate.
1) If you're going to coattail someone then do it religiously. Don't pick and choose on the bets, don't vary your wager size, don't make your own plays (unless they are for miniscule amounts). When you jump around you endlessly chase winning streaks and invariably you will end up jumping into a successful cappers losing streaks - everyone has them, you just ride them out.
2) Get several places to make your wagers. This is an absolutely MUST. You will NEVER do very well until you have multiple outs because about 2-3% of your plays will fall on the number and the hook will kill you. Just figure up how much different your bankroll would be if you won an additional 2% instead of losing that amount of money over a season - it's substantial.
3) Gambling is TOUGH, period. I suppose this sounds like a lecture (it is) but complaining about your losses accomplishes nothing. There is no gambling God, karma has nothing to do with it, just because you bet on a game has nothing to do with it's outcome regardless of how it appears. You're a speck in the ointment my friend so accept that fact, take the emotion out of it and thicken your hide. Or quit gambling because if it really bothers you that much it will drive you crazy.
So, WHY do I go to this trouble? Because my friend Dry1, I lost over $100K several years back, ended up in bankruptcy, nearly lost my wife, my kids, everything, because of my gambling. I DO believe that those events qualify me to give you this lecture. I want to prevent that from ever happening to anyone again because I very nearly committed suicide. You can get my addy from MJ and e-mail if you want to talk this out some more in private. I only wish to help you.
Skinar