Have you ever thrown a rock into a pond? After the splash, there's really nothing left to see. You can throw another rock and make another splash, but when you get right down to it.... one splash is the same as the other. The next rock looks the same as the last.
Does it ever bother either you or hedgehog to know that the footprint or memory of your live's and existence will make less of a splash and even less of a legacy than the first or last rock?
Hedge,
Who do your kids call daddy now? We both know it's not you, so I'm curious if you're friends with your exe's kids new daddy and if they call you uncle dumbass or? ........
Hope this helps,
FDC
