Ok, ok, ok, I can hear it now. "I told you so!" First off, please, I know the mistake I made, and do not need to hear that right now. For those following my soap opera saga of a relationship, well, it took a turn for the worse late last nite. She, my ex, lives under me in the same apartment building, and well, last nite she came upstairs right as I was getting home, and basically met me at the door. Trying to be the strong male I wanted to be, I tried resisting her, but the liquor and outfit she was wearing was just too much. To make a long story short, we somehow worked things out late last nite, some stuff happened, and well, woke up this morning back together.
Well, I knew I made a mistake saying id give her a 2nd chance, after she told me she was a fickle woman, that she wasnt thinking clearly the other nite, yada, yada, yada. Well the day went great, hung out, did whatever, and I get a call from a buddy about 5pm and he needed some guys to come over and help him move. So i go over to the buddies place and help him move until about 10pm tonite. I get home, call her b/c she told me earlier to call her when I got in, and she didnt answer. She finally calls me about 10:20 as she is on her way home. I ask where she was tonite and she says over at a friends house hanging out.
So I go downstairs to her apartment when she gets home, and we start talking about what we did this evening. I tell her I helped a buddy move all nite, and that I had a job offer in dallas---or a tentative one tonite. (I did, but not a concrete-solid one) But to test her, I say that I may transfer to Dallas if I take the job--and she immediately says, "Yea, I think that would be best for you." Suspiciously, I agree and then ask her why she answered so firmly so fast--and she said "I dont know, i just want the best for you." Not feeling quite right, I ask her if who all was over there at her friend's tonite, and who do you think was there? Yes, that DUDE!!!! Now im pissed, wondering why the heck I even talked to her Saturday nite, and ask her straight up if she is 100% solid in her feelings that she wants to be with only me and no one else---and she says she thinks so. I get pissed off, start putting my shoes on to leave, and she starts balling, saying she doesnt know what she feels, that its her time of the month, and that she just has an infatuation for this guy. I told her to go date him, and that Im outta her life, and she said that she didnt want to date him because he didnt like her anyway and that she would regret it in the end. So i leave as she is sobbing, and I can honestly say FOR GOOD! I learned my lesson, was burned by going back, and can say im not going back EVER! Sheesh, what was I thinking last night........
Well, I knew I made a mistake saying id give her a 2nd chance, after she told me she was a fickle woman, that she wasnt thinking clearly the other nite, yada, yada, yada. Well the day went great, hung out, did whatever, and I get a call from a buddy about 5pm and he needed some guys to come over and help him move. So i go over to the buddies place and help him move until about 10pm tonite. I get home, call her b/c she told me earlier to call her when I got in, and she didnt answer. She finally calls me about 10:20 as she is on her way home. I ask where she was tonite and she says over at a friends house hanging out.
So I go downstairs to her apartment when she gets home, and we start talking about what we did this evening. I tell her I helped a buddy move all nite, and that I had a job offer in dallas---or a tentative one tonite. (I did, but not a concrete-solid one) But to test her, I say that I may transfer to Dallas if I take the job--and she immediately says, "Yea, I think that would be best for you." Suspiciously, I agree and then ask her why she answered so firmly so fast--and she said "I dont know, i just want the best for you." Not feeling quite right, I ask her if who all was over there at her friend's tonite, and who do you think was there? Yes, that DUDE!!!! Now im pissed, wondering why the heck I even talked to her Saturday nite, and ask her straight up if she is 100% solid in her feelings that she wants to be with only me and no one else---and she says she thinks so. I get pissed off, start putting my shoes on to leave, and she starts balling, saying she doesnt know what she feels, that its her time of the month, and that she just has an infatuation for this guy. I told her to go date him, and that Im outta her life, and she said that she didnt want to date him because he didnt like her anyway and that she would regret it in the end. So i leave as she is sobbing, and I can honestly say FOR GOOD! I learned my lesson, was burned by going back, and can say im not going back EVER! Sheesh, what was I thinking last night........
