Women help please.

[hedgehog]

meet both in person..

make it crystal clear you are a much valued free agent with talent galore.

further you are a seeking a steady partner who has nearly every character trait you have wanted in a women and are willing to spend the time among a selected few to reach that goal..

ya only get to pick and choose for so many years and then you are limited by father time and your own williness to take the time and effort to select that ulta suitable mate.


leave no stone unturned nor any question left unasked.

The livin' and partnership guidelines you set now are the ones that the potential partner can weigh honestly and clearly with no secondguessing as to where you stand and what you are worthy of.


The weak and insecure will weed themselves out and the strong and secure will come to the forefront.


Blatant honesty..What you see is what ya get.

You are not to her likin'...

Thats cool ..wish her well..

NEXT...

great advise sir as always...

 

[Nole]

Ask yourself this........


WWPD?




Yep, what would Ponch do?

Laugh now but it's gotten me through many a tough time.







:toast:

 

[Sylvan]

Old School, you are the man. Thanks!

 

[Sylvan]

Don't say shit.

It's not their business until you're in a real relationship.

This worked. I met both of them this week, on separate dates of course, and found one of them is the one I want. The other one was nice but I just don't see myself with her. The other one I met last night for a few drinks and she was awesome.....hot as hell too! We clicked really well from the get go.

So I've cut off communications with the other one and am going to pursue the one I met last night. And neither one of them found out about each other. So....Thanks Joker! :toast: And thanks everyone else for chiming in with your two cents.

 

[Sportsaholic]

Pics............opcorn2

 

[TouchdownJesus]

I am definitely late to this thread but a few have really said things well. Until you are actually in a relationship, there is nothing at all wrong with dating more than one person. And you also have to remember that goes for both him and her.

The funny thing is that the girl will probably like you more if she thinks you are dating others. Its all "casual" until the relationship has been established and then after that, its cheating.

If I'm with a girl and she asks about other girls, I sort of joke around with it and at the same time be totally honest about it but I won't call any of it "dating". I might say I went to a movie with a friend and if she keeps asking about the girl, like if we are physical or whatever, I'll play it off...say something like "eww, icky, why would I want to touch a girl" basically something playful where I don't admit anything but she probably thinks I'm fucking the other girl and while it might piss her off, it probably also makes her want me more knowing someone else of her gender wants me.

They actually want the mystery and they want to know that you are wanted by other women. The key is to take it slow and have fun along the way but don't intentionally hurt anyone and hopefully they won't intentionally hurt you.

For me...if I'm single, I'm single. If I'm in a relationship, then I am NOT single...period. A lot of times its just way more fun to be single. lol.

 

[The Sponge]

I've been divorced for about two months. I did the "bang as many women as you can now" thing and that was fun.

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boy u must have set a tremendous pace in those "two Months"