Well since it seemed to go over well and spark a nice discussion I'll update you all.
First off, here is the original post link...
http://www.madjacksports.com/forum/showthread.php?t=288282
Anyways, I took everyones advice and cut all connections cold turkey with her. This lasted for about 50 days or so until about 10 days ago. Anyways, I did not make the first attempt to speak with her. She sent me a text message asking me if she ever thought we could talk again, and I replied back saying that she had hurt me bad and such I didn't know if I could/wanted handle it. Skip forward a few days and we ended up hanging out and all went well. Apparently while she was dating her ex all she could do would think of me and miss me and it really got to her, so she broke it off with him.
We hungout a few times, hooked up, went to the city, out the dinner, ect... just fun stuff and both felt really well.
Well anyways, about 5 days ago, she calls me balling and saying that she has to goto her ex's house because his mom said that its an emergency and she can't tell her over the phone. So i'm thinking this kid flat out off'd himself because he was depressed with out her. (he has a history of going insane when they fight or whatever, I guess he once jumped from a car going 25mph.)
So it turns out that their whole family is being deported back to Ukraine. So i'm thinking, well thats shitty and I wouldn't wish something upon that to anyone, but at least it will get this dbag out of my life and I won't have to deal with him anymore.
So to turn a long story short, while in jail in Konosha waiting to be deported, my ex gf accepted his offer of engagement and will be moving with him to Ukraine whenever she gets all her paperwork figured out. I'm pretty sure I should laugh this off, but I have been in love w/the girl for 2 years and it is hitting me pretty bad again. We just talked for a long while, which basically consisted of me crying and trying to figure out wtf she is doing. I wish it were as easy as just finding another broad or whatever, but she really is great to hangout/be with when shes not a total psycho. I know a ton of girls and met a ton when not talking to her, but none of them really interested me even in the slightest beyond looks.
I'm thinking that I should almost just stop talking to her all together and let her go be miserable there and miss me while being married to this doochebag, but I love her to do that.
anyways, go ahead and flame away/give expert advice or both... just figured i'd update you all.
P.S. my poison ivy is gone, it cleared up on my rod faster than the rest of my body, so thats good news.
First off, here is the original post link...
http://www.madjacksports.com/forum/showthread.php?t=288282
Anyways, I took everyones advice and cut all connections cold turkey with her. This lasted for about 50 days or so until about 10 days ago. Anyways, I did not make the first attempt to speak with her. She sent me a text message asking me if she ever thought we could talk again, and I replied back saying that she had hurt me bad and such I didn't know if I could/wanted handle it. Skip forward a few days and we ended up hanging out and all went well. Apparently while she was dating her ex all she could do would think of me and miss me and it really got to her, so she broke it off with him.
We hungout a few times, hooked up, went to the city, out the dinner, ect... just fun stuff and both felt really well.
Well anyways, about 5 days ago, she calls me balling and saying that she has to goto her ex's house because his mom said that its an emergency and she can't tell her over the phone. So i'm thinking this kid flat out off'd himself because he was depressed with out her. (he has a history of going insane when they fight or whatever, I guess he once jumped from a car going 25mph.)
So it turns out that their whole family is being deported back to Ukraine. So i'm thinking, well thats shitty and I wouldn't wish something upon that to anyone, but at least it will get this dbag out of my life and I won't have to deal with him anymore.
So to turn a long story short, while in jail in Konosha waiting to be deported, my ex gf accepted his offer of engagement and will be moving with him to Ukraine whenever she gets all her paperwork figured out. I'm pretty sure I should laugh this off, but I have been in love w/the girl for 2 years and it is hitting me pretty bad again. We just talked for a long while, which basically consisted of me crying and trying to figure out wtf she is doing. I wish it were as easy as just finding another broad or whatever, but she really is great to hangout/be with when shes not a total psycho. I know a ton of girls and met a ton when not talking to her, but none of them really interested me even in the slightest beyond looks.
I'm thinking that I should almost just stop talking to her all together and let her go be miserable there and miss me while being married to this doochebag, but I love her to do that.
anyways, go ahead and flame away/give expert advice or both... just figured i'd update you all.
P.S. my poison ivy is gone, it cleared up on my rod faster than the rest of my body, so thats good news.
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