The ex gf saga updated...

Woodson

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I'll be as honest as possible. You don't know who you are. Hockey doesn't make you, some manipulative girl doesn't define you, and talking to a shrink sounds to only enable you and your excuses. You're close to clinical because you have allowed another individual to control you. And you are continuing to allow it. Have enough fuqing self confidence to realize that you're the only one fighting for control of another persons FEELINGS. It's 90% Pride and 10% missing her.

Grow the fuq up and move on. Get your sh|t together and start acting like a man...

'm not making fun of you. Love sucks and 2 years invested sucks, but learn from it, and move on bro for the next gir who will respect you~

This isn't going to have a happy ending and it won't be the last time you put your rod into a girl and see white picket fences at climax.

Let yourself accept the relationship failed... learn from it and put it to use in your next one

She said yes to another man's marriage proposal... that's all you need to hear to move on.

Good luck, and I mean what I said about worrying about gaining control in your life... Boundaries... Think about it...
 

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this is pointless...this is the 3rd or 4th post i've seen about this, and everytime you say that you are going to quit talking to her, and everytime after a couple of weeks, we get another update of heart broken misery because you spoke to her again....QUIT COMMUNICATING WITH HER COMPLETELY...believe me, i've been there and done that. i dated a girl for 3 years, thought i was going to marry her, then she dumped me. it killed me, and all i wanted was to get her back. i was real fukked up over it and kept in contact with her and that made it worse. she would call me and say she loved me and i was the one she wanted to marry one day, and everytime i spoke to her, it only put me back into a depression becasue i couldn't get over her. i finally manned up and didn't talk to her for 3 years. for the past year though, we have communicated. she got married a month ago and i am engaged also. we are merely friends now, and i couldn't be happier with where i am in my life. the only way you will get over this girl is to cut off all communication with her, until then, you will be miserable and filled with false hopes.
 

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I suggest you see her one last time before she heads off to the Ukraine.

I'm sure if you ask really really nicely she might let you have your balls back before she leaves.

This is the point in your life that a giant can of Milwaukee's Best Light should fall from the sky and pummel you into the ground.
 

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This is the point in your life that a giant can of Milwaukee's Best Light should fall from the sky and pummel you into the ground
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This is the point in your life that a giant can of Milwaukee's Best Light should fall from the sky and pummel you into the ground.

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gardenweasel

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Then it appears that the only rational thing left for you to do is kidnap her, its for her own good after all :s1: & move to a non-extradition county.....:sadwave: "

"The Ukraine is stocked with hot ass women & huge female to male ratio...why is she going there...it should be you going there to find a piece or love or whatever.....Seriously book a trip there, you wont even remember this chicks name after 2 weeks w/ those women. Just make sure you wrap it tight, they do have a bit of a an HIV problem"...

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speakin` of thinkin` outside the box...now that`s what i`m talkin` `bout.....i like your style,3 sec..........

my friend(tpaine),sounds like there`s a distinct possiblity that this young lady may be totin` a little more than teen spirit around....

you don`t want to end up with some monkey butt on your head(i.e. social disease or worse).......

cut bait,my man...
 

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Why would you want to be with someone who clearly doesn't feel the same way about you as you do about her? You can rationalize her behavior all you want, but her actions speak volumes about her feelings.

Let it go and find someone who will love you as much as you love them.
 

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you guys may as well talk to the wall.

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Any chance we can see a picture of this girl? Im telling you right now she better be hotter than that trainwreck of a coworker BSucards was all upset about around 6 months ago.
 

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Any chance we can see a picture of this girl? Im telling you right now she better be hotter than that trainwreck of a coworker BSucards was all upset about around 6 months ago.

I already asked for a pic...no response.

I would settle for the Ukraine guy...want to see what the 'gem' of a guy that beat him out looks like....
 

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I just joined in on this..missed the other 2 threads thank god. What is wrong with you man? Grow a sack.. There are other girls out there.

The best comment had to be that she was still thinking of you when she was with this other guy. How romantic :com:

Go to the bar, meet some sluts.. they will help take your mind off this girl.
 

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Tpaine07, the advise given by others before was right on. She is playing you big time and you need to man up and completely cut her out of your life fast! I'm sure she is saying to the Ukraine guy "watch me mess with him some more!" You are young and will find someone in the future. Many of us have seen these games girls play in the past and know what we are talking about. Change your phone # so she can't contact you anymore. DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT TALKING, SEEING TEXTING, ETC... HER EVER AGAIN!! She is not the same girl you fell in love with before!Good luck and listen to everyone here and your dad, in time if you listen to us you will look back at this life experience and say what the hell was I doing back then!?!?
 
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tpaine07

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Its all done, I went there and told her I was done with everything and I hope she has a good time with everything. She is ****ed up and its only making me a serious nutcase. This will all be for the best, I really don't feel well now, but I guess if her getting married and moving to another country doesn't move me on, I am truly a idiot.
 

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Its all done, I went there and told her I was done with everything and I hope she has a good time with everything. She is ****ed up and its only making me a serious nutcase. This will all be for the best, I really don't feel well now, but I guess if her getting married and moving to another country doesn't move me on, I am truly a idiot.

QUITTER!
 

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Its all done, I went there and told her I was done with everything and I hope she has a good time with everything. She is ****ed up and its only making me a serious nutcase. This will all be for the best, I really don't feel well now, but I guess if her getting married and moving to another country doesn't move me on, I am truly a idiot.

Oh man you didn't we were all just kidding!



Seriously you did the right thing you won't regret it and don't look back!!
 

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Its all done, I went there and told her I was done with everything and I hope she has a good time with everything. She is ****ed up and its only making me a serious nutcase. This will all be for the best, I really don't feel well now, but I guess if her getting married and moving to another country doesn't move me on, I am truly a idiot.

Shit! I was just gonna say, maybe you should stay with her!

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