I'm 34 and single. I'm loving life. Of course I have a very cute 3 year old that makes it very easy to meet women. Especially teachers and nurses. This past year is the first time in my life I've been single. I shouldn't have waited so long. lol That being said I don't want my little boy growing up thinking that is the way life should be. So if the right one comes along I'm hitched! :SIB
35 and single? What next??
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well, if you're interested in meeting women, go to the pawn shop and get a cheap gold band to put on your left ring finger. That draws them in like flies (although probably not the marrying kind :mj07: ). Nothing wrong with being single, and nothing wrong with not having children. I love mine immensely, but I have several very happy successful friends who don't have kids by choice.
sidenote: I'm interested in your username. I'm actually a "Purple" myself. Bowling Green High School Purples, and I used to and still do say I bleed purple. Just curious to the origin of your username.
sidenote: I'm interested in your username. I'm actually a "Purple" myself. Bowling Green High School Purples, and I used to and still do say I bleed purple. Just curious to the origin of your username.
The last thing you want to do is force yourself into a bad marriage to some bartender you hooked up with. Stay away from the easy marks.
Take your time and find someone that doesn't need you to support them financially and you get along with. There are a lot of solid candidates out there, but just remember, every last one of them is fukked in the head, so cross "sane" off your requirements list.
Good luck.
Take your time and find someone that doesn't need you to support them financially and you get along with. There are a lot of solid candidates out there, but just remember, every last one of them is fukked in the head, so cross "sane" off your requirements list.
Good luck.
Got married at 42 and had a boy at 43 and it's the best thing I have ever done. Plenty of time and the important thing is to find the right one. You have been on the driving range for awhile now so its time to hit the course. My only regret is that I didn't do it earlier. Also you might end up w/someone that has a kid but make sure you have one of your OWN!!Good Luck and there is plenty of time....I have two other friends that are the same age and just started their families too.
WOW! I am really surprised to hear that coming from you Jack.:grins: :grins:
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If a woman thinks something wrong with you for being 35 and not married--I think your better off without her.
Don't know about the opposite sex--but from my viewpoint its the ones 35 and been married several times that I'd be leary about.
--was 54 before I got married--and no regrets on waiting. Better to slective and wait for right one to my thinking.
More and more people are waiting to marry and have kids later on. I work in a hospital and see alot of women having kids in their 30's and even 40's. It really isnt that uncommon. You have plenty of time and besides, count yourself lucky that you've escaped the divorce/child support trap because it seems to be the norm this day and age.
I got married at 38 and had a child at 42 and love it
Hang in there
Spend the next year banging everything possible while keeping an eye open for the right one
it will happen
good luck
cavy1
Hang in there
Spend the next year banging everything possible while keeping an eye open for the right one
it will happen
good luck
cavy1
