as a person that`s basically ambivalent on the issue(but absolutely believes in a "domestic partners bill of rights")i think we have to be a little more careful with this "hateful" meme and labeling everybody that disagrees with your own p.o.v. as a monster or bigot...
i`d wager that 80 to 90% of the parents of posters on this board agree (to some extent) with "traditional marriage" as one of the linchpins of their belief system....it`s always been that way for them.....are thay haters and monsters?...no,they aren`t...they just have a more traditional belief system.....
and apparently,they aren`t the minority that you would think they are (based on the representation on thiis board)...
polls say that a slight majority agree with ssm... .but they`re just polls and can be skewed based on the pollster`s agenda and sampling methods..........the truth is that when this issue was put to a referendum,it`s been voted down in state after state (unfortunately or fortunately,depending on your p.o.v.)....
a large majority of african americans don`t agree with ssm(probably for the same or similar reasons as cathy)...they aren`t all bigots...the president was all for traditional marriage up until a few months ago and i doubt that he would be consdered a hateful bigot by those throwing that label around...and speaking of the struggle of african americans in this country and the ssm issue,they aren`t the same....one is a civil rights issue...the other a human rights issue...
i`m just trying to make the point that theres an awful lot of nuance involved in the issue and the name calling probably isn`t going to win over many hearts and minds...
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Good post.
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