If you want music, I use WinMX, but as for movies, try Sharereactor, but you'll need Emule or Edonkey software to download them and Nero to burn them to vcd or svcd. I found that Winmx has alot more variety than the others. And as far as safe goes, if you're worried about them tracing your IP address, I would recommend a router. But it really doesn't matter, if they wanna bust you they will find a way. All music has a certain encryption encoded to it. All they have to do is compare the original song to that of which you have downloaded and viola, an exact copy. If you want to "hide" the songs you download, I would suggest you change your song's encryption. Best of luck.