I know EXACTLY how you feel man,,Mine is exactly the same way,,She is too busy worried about her drug riddled son who steals from her to appreciate the fact her daughter is the one she is missing out on life,,My wife has given up on asking her to do anything,,,And our 2 children have never spent the night there but my mom has kept them both every friday night for the first 9 years of thier life so my wife and I can have date night:toast: ,NOW the sad part,,I have to go over there tonight for Christmas because they found the druggie in jail but he gets out today so we gonna celebrate tonight,,,:facepalm: :shrug: