Need some advice

[DerrickTulips]

Heres the situation.

I was relocated up north for work about 2 years ago, I knew all along i wanted to get back down south. I met this girl a year ago who lived about 70 miles away from me and told her that my goal was to get back down south, and she agreed to relocate.

Anyway, now I am back down south ( i worked with my company to find a location that my gf and I would both agree on) and now she says she isnt moving down here until she gets a teaching job..

So should I continue with a (8 hour) long distance relationship for what possibly could be another year or more., or look elsewhere

Keep in mind i was planning on proposing within the next month.

 

[MadJack]

If she loved you she would already be there with you.

Move on :sadwave:

 

[PocketAces]

I'd tell her that you were thinking marriage and that she is blowing it by not wanting to move.

Be patient and calm. Think about it from her perspective. If you were thinking proposal then there is SOMETHING there.

If she is negative at all move on. It'll suck but it'll suck less now versus 5 years and two kids later.

 

[homedog]

Heres the situation.

I was relocated up north for work about 2 years ago, I knew all along i wanted to get back down south. I met this girl a year ago who lived about 70 miles away from me and told her that my goal was to get back down south, and she agreed to relocate.

Anyway, now I am back down south ( i worked with my company to find a location that my gf and I would both agree on) and now she says she isnt moving down here until she gets a teaching job..

So should I continue with a (8 hour) long distance relationship for what possibly could be another year or more., or look elsewhere

Keep in mind i was planning on proposing within the next month.

Is she actively pursuing a job where you live? If she is then no big deal. If she isn't, dump her quick.

 

[Betone]

If she loved you she would already be there with you.

Move on :sadwave:

Bingo :toast:

 

[The Joker]

I'd tell her that you were thinking marriage and that she is blowing it by not wanting to move.

Be patient and calm. Think about it from her perspective. If you were thinking proposal then there is SOMETHING there.

If she is negative at all move on. It'll suck but it'll suck less now versus 5 years and two kids later.

Agree.

 

[Sportsaholic]

Pictures would help :0003

 

[homedog]

Pictures would help :0003

:0074

 

[MadJack]

Pictures would help :0003

Finally someone sensible :toast:

 

[gardenweasel]

sounds like she reneged....

are you absolutely sure that the teaching job is the reason?....

that`s important to know...i say this with your best interests in mind...

 

[PocketAces]

Finally someone sensible :toast:

Admins ARE typically sensible...

 

[Sportsaholic]

Good training :0008

 

[Old School]

So should I continue with a (8 hour) long distance relationship for what possibly could be another year or more., or look elsewhere

25 MILLION employed unmarried women in the USA who are lookin' for a great guy with compassion and a sense of self worth..

you are making an 8 hour commute and she hasn't packed her bags to be with you..


hello ................25 million...:0008

goodbye...............:sadwave: I changed my mind...

 

[Old School]

and it's not......... LOOKIN'..:nono:


it's available to the right women :0008

 

[MadJack]

25 MILLION employed unmarried women in the USA who are lookin' for a great guy with compassion and a sense of self worth..

you are making an 8 hour commute and she hasn't packed her bags to be with you..


hello ................25 million...:0008

goodbye...............:sadwave: I changed my mind...

:0074

 

[hedgehog]

give her the ultimatem (sp) and then if she doesnt move down, :sadwave: I know its easier said than done, but thats what I would do

 

[Sportsaholic]

give her the ultimatem (sp) and then if she doesnt move down, :sadwave: I know its easier said than done, but thats what I would do

Did you miss the point about getting pics first :shrug:


Who knows, this gal might be able to suck a golfball through a Garden Hose for all we know.

 

[Morris]

Does she like beer? If not kick her to the curb!

 

[Nole]

WWPD?




opcorn2

 

[MadJack]

WWPD?




opcorn2

There lies your answer. Ponch would tell her to....