DTB I don't currently have friends in China, (friend had teaching job in Hunan a few years ago), but you should also check out Thailand- IMHO. I've got some Ex-Pat friends who live over there & LOVE it. (Of course one friend was cleaned out by a pole dancer in Bangkok, but there will always be those stories.) Most are like a friend of mine who is retired military. He got screwed by his EX out of 50% of his military retirement and lost his house to her to boot. He then checked out various places overseas, & ends up that he loves Thailand. Although everyone speaks English in the Philippines, he said he felt like a wounded Water Buffalo surrounded by the Pack. Most American enclaves there have armed guards too.
In Thailand he got a 17th floor condo overlooking the Beach for $400/month. This includes maid service once/week, TDD telephone, security, swimming pool, squash court, weight room, room service, Satellite TV, etc. His girlfriend is half his age and treats him better than his wife ever did. He says he has never had a better time in his life. Been going on 4 years now. Of course I am prejudiced as my Brothers-In-Law 'show' me the town, especially Patpong Rd and also keep the Land Sharks away.
Get my E-Mail from Jack if you want more info. This is a good place to start:
http://www.pattayamail.com
I changed jobs so haven't been back in 2 years, but will make the trek next year. Seems like everytime I make the same resolution, "Man, I don't wanna get a massage, drink any beer or 'come off' for at least 4 mos.- just let me recuperate! Man it's a romp...dance2